i am very happily married, so this has nothing to do with a desire for another man, just so i am understood. but, i had a love years ago, we almost married. he was hiding an onset of schitzophrenia, we tried to work thru it, but it was too much for him. he left one day. my husband feels he will want to contact me someday because we have unfinished business. he is not upset by it, he knew the man. plus, he knows we are secure in our marraige. what i have wanted to know for years is if he is okay. my concern for him haunted me for years and it obviously is still in the back of my mind. any answers? (his initials are A.E.S, if that makes a difference)

ranieri

He is well. But dont go there. It is not an issue for you. And its not even as big a deal as your husband is making it out to be. peace ranieri

LoveMyBooBooGirl

what is yep??? and ranieri, the hubby isnt making a big deal of it, he mention his thoughts on the subject once, thats all. i wondered because it was so sudden, no "closure".

LoveMyBooBooGirl

so, i noticed that you have mentioned posession on another thread. and it has also been said that schitzophrenia is not a mental disease but posession. it is a strong christian belief. due to a loved ones battle with it, i have done my homework. what do u think, disease or posession?

ranieri

I believe it is disease. And high intelligence, genius level. A lot depends on how the person was handled growing up. peace ranieri