ok...since hubby isnt pressing charges and the D.A. is going through with this, THEY would have to call hubby in to testify and since he is married to you he can refuse to testify against you. If this is a life-lesson(and I trust it is) perhaps it is to push you toward a different(happier)path;(get out of the relationship and you'll be amazed at how your life will improve (physically, emotionally,and spiritually)...One of my own "life-rules" is that if there is anything (or anyONE) in my life thst is toxic to my well-being..then it is eliminated. Works great

you just hang in there..I have every bit of faith that you'll receive the strength and support to get through this. God Bless
