I know this is probably crazy of me to even ask but I am desperate for any kind of help...Almost a year ago the love of my life was killed. He was hit by a drunk driver...We had been fighting and my phone was dead. I knew he was away and just figured I would talk to him upon his return. When I turned my phone on, 2 days later, I had over 10 voice mails telling me to please call right away. When I finally called they had just taken him off life support. I had no idea...I swear though, sometimes, I can still feel him...And I want to try and communicate with him...I have things I have to hear or have to say and I feel it's the only way I can ever really move on with my life and figure out the meaning of it again...Is there a way I can communicate with him?

progunr

I was in a different situation than you but it involved communication with someone who was also deceased.

I visited the site where this person was buried.

I had written a letter ahead of time so I would say everything I needed to without leaving anything out. I read the letter, and continued to speak, ad-lib, for another 20 minutes or so.

It helped me a great deal, I think that it may be of help to you too.

Fr_Chuck

When we lose the one we love deeply a part of them is always with us. The last words I said to my first wife were harsh words, before she was killed, It haunted me for so long, but I found that I could and would just talk to her, Alone, at her grave site, She can not talk back of course, but I feel she does know that I was so sorry.

plonak

Oh honey, I am soo sorry to hear your tragic story.. I can't imagine how horrible that must have been to deal with. Try to find solice in the fact that he is in so much of a better place right now.. he is happy and you will come meet him someday.. I agree with the above advise, go to his gravesite and talk to him. My prayers are with you.