boyfriend of 9 months had to move away when he lost his job bc of political reasons. we remain in frequent contact, but have put the relationship on hold until he figures out his employment. it was too early in the relationship to make a marital commitment. we had a fantastic relationship, got along well on all levels, he was fabulous with my children, my friends liked him. his family knows about me and i talk to them often when we telephone each other. what does our future together look like?