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Old Apr 16, 2008, 10:54 PM
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What is wrong with these doctors

So on Tuesday night around 10pm I went to bed with cramping, woke up at 2 am with sever lower abdominal cramping and lower back cramping ( it felt like menstrual cramps). So of course the husband was out of town and I couldn't drive my self to the hospital, so I waited till today to see my doctor, I told him about all my symptoms. He did a vaginal exam and said well your not dilating so lets do an ultrasound, of course at this point I am in so much pain.
I go do the ultrasound and the radiologist sends me to Labour and Delivery because he can't see anything wrong on the ultrasound. My doctor gets called he comes in feels my belly looks at the monitor and says hmm I don't know, walked out of the room to the nurses and says I have no idea what's wrong with her.
He then said she has had pain through out her pregnancy but other wise it has been healthy, well I say that's not true considering how many times I have been in the labour and delivery.
Then the nurses laughed and said well what you want us to do, he said no idea, till the nurse finally said call a specialist in. He came in said I was contracting but my cervix was still closed, so no dice on having the baby at 34 weeks. When I asked him why I was in so much pain he said, well I am not sure but you know some demurral will take care of it, well they were wrong. I still had the pain plus the spotting and after 9 hours I ended up leaving the hospital still in pain and still spotting. Now when I go to the bathroom and wipe my tissue paper has either red spots or its a peach colour, and yes I am still in pain. So ladies and gentle man what do you think is wrong? I just can't go on like this anymore in pain and spotting.

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Old Apr 17, 2008, 07:36 AM   #2  
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Hard to say....I assume they checked for possible kidney infection/kidney stone? Were any contractions showing up on the monitor? Do the pains come and go like contractions or is one continuous pain? Do you have a fever? No issues with constipation? Was any explanation given? I assume you were told what to watch for and to come back if you notice any changes?
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Old Apr 17, 2008, 07:59 AM   #3  
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Sounds a lot like the back labor I had with my children. The baby is most likely pressing on your nerves in your back and that is causing the pain. I don't know about the spotting - it might be from the vaginal checks (I'm presuming they checked you vaginally since you said that your weren't dialating.)

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Hard to say....I assume they checked for possible kidney infection/kidney stone? Were any contractions showing up on the monitor? Do the pains come and go like contractions or is one continuous pain? Do you have a fever? No issues with constipation? Was any explanation given? I assume you were told what to watch for and to come back if you notice any changes?

Well the kidney stones and bladder infection is not ruled out they can't get the results till Friday. The monitor did show contractions but they were to short, the pain comes and goes every 15 - 20 minutes and it feels like menstrual cramps. No their was no problems with constipation, the explanation was well we have no idea it would be a irritable cervix. They did say watch over the pain and see what happens, the pain has let go today but because I have just gotten out of bed so will see later today. I have to say the nurses up at Labour and Delivery were great yesterday, they were the only ones that made me feel better. Thanks for all the greats answers. Could I be going into pre labour even if I am not dilating? If I am in this much pain and discomfort why won't they just schedule me for a c-section that poor baby can't be very happy either.
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Let me ask if the pains go away with movement. When you start walking around, do the pains lessen at all or go away?

It is highly possible that you are dehydrated. This happens a lot in pregnancy, especially as far along as you are, and mimics labor. You really should be checked for dehydration and be rehydrated intravenously if this is the case.

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Becca1025 agrees: Thats what happened to me at 21 weeks, I was very dehydrated and had constant contractions. They kept me all day and made me drink so much water and contractions stopped.
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Let me ask if the pains go away with movement. When you start walking around, do the pains lessen at all or go away?

It is highly possible that you are dehydrated. This happens a lot in pregnancy, especially as far along as you are, and mimics labor. You really should be checked for dehydration and be rehydrated intravenously if this is the case.


They did check for dehydration they gave me to saline bags in an IV form along with the demurral. The pain does not go away when I walk it gets worse, I should say the pressure does. Right now I am sitting down and it feels okay just a bit painful that's all, diarrhea has as well set in.
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Is their anyway I can check my self if I am dilating or what's going on down their?
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Well the kidney stones and bladder infection is not ruled out they can't get the results till Friday. The monitor did show contractions but they were to short, the pain comes and goes every 15 - 20 minutes and it feels like menstrual cramps. No their was no problems with constipation, the explanation was well we have no idea it would be a irritable cervix. They did say watch over the pain and see what happens, the pain has let go today but because I have just gotten out of bed so will see later today. I have to say the nurses up at Labour and Delivery were great yesterday, they were the only ones that made me feel better. Thanks for all the greats answers. Could I be going into pre labour even if I am not dilating? If I am in this much pain and discomfort why won't they just schedule me for a c-section that poor baby can't be very happy either.


Obviously everything is speculation from what you have described. You could be in what is called prodromal labor....basically your body preparing or practicing, and it can go on for quite a long time. Contractions can be fairly regular, or pretty sporadic, but tend to be noticably increased over the usual Braxton Hicks. They may continue for several days and then stop...there is often no rhymn or reason to how they proceed.
They usually won't do anything if it is not effecting your cervix....staying put is best for baby at this stage. If they feel it may be the start of preterm labor, they may suggest meds or bedrest, or both...but again, since the contractions apparently aren't causing any cervical changes it is not necessary. Besides, the meds are not fun for many women so best left to use only when truly needed.
The diarrhea could also be a sign of an early start to things....as J_9 said, keep your fluid intake up, even more so with the diarrhea.
See how things go....if they start to get more of a pattern and you are getting more than 4 or 5 in an hour, give them a call. Call anyway if something changes and it causes you concern.
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Well the spotting has stoped and cramping has let up, I think Doula C was right about it may be prodromal labor. The baby is moving a lot which is a good thing, is their anything I can do to start labor? Is their something I did to bring on the pain?
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As I have told you several times hun, you do not want to start labor yet. The baby is not ready. If you intentionally start labor now, you could cause permanent and irreversible damage to your baby.

I agree with Doula that it is most likely prodromal labor and it will come and go until the big day comes.

Is there something you did? That is impossible for us to answer as we are not with you 24/7. It could be anything from a little pulled muscle to dehydration, or just nature taking it's course.
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