hi, i just wanted to put my story out and see what are the chances that my girlfriend is pregnant or not. shes been on the pill for several months and we use condoms too. however, recently there have been a couple times where we did not use condoms and i pulled out, although i know its possible some could have gotten in her. anyway, a few days before her last period she noticed spotting. then she got her period but she said it only lasted for a day or two so she wasnt sure if it was it or not. shes been under a lot of stress lately and sometimes she feel sick to her stmoach. its been about a week after she got what she tought was her period. obviously we are both alarmed about this, but she wants to wait to take a test. i just wanted to get opinions on whether other people thought she was or not. thanks

dudeneedshelp

i've expressed my concerns to her, and theres no way shes going to take a test until she knows she is late. neither of us want a child right now, but if she was pregnant we would defiantly keep it. my concern is that shes still taking her birth control and if she is pregnant than this could hurt the baby. another thing that i am worried about is the bleeding shes experiencing. she goes to see her doctor next month. could the bleeding be a result of being pregnant? if thats not the case, what could be some other reasons for it?

buggage

some women experience early pregnancy bleeding, and it is perfectly normal for them. however, it could also be something serious. I am afraid this is something that needs to be brought up with the doctor. If she is refusing to take a test, yet still taking her birth control, she is off to a very irresponsible start. She needs to face the possibilities, and just find out.