Trying for baby

Wondergirl · Jan 10, 2011, 09:10 AM

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Originally Posted by kristinka323

the problem is that my huby does not whant a baby yet, so he is always protecting...

So you are going to SURPRISE him with a pregnancy? Not a good thing to do.

kristinka323 · Jan 10, 2011, 09:17 AM

No not really, he always asks me if I whant too, and I keep saing 'NO' because we live in diferent states... And now that I moved... I like to start family, but I don't whant him to know.His Birthday is coming up...he always askes me if he should pull out and I keep saing YES...but if I do become prego he will love it... I just don't know how to tell him!

jmjoseph · Jan 10, 2011, 09:22 AM

I work with a guy who was put in the same position, a "surprise pregancy". He wouldn't even touch his own daughter for the first year of her life. He's a jerk by nature, and a worst case scenario, but it happens. It almost ruined his marriage, because he felt tricked.

Think about it. Talk and listen to him.

Wondergirl · Jan 10, 2011, 09:22 AM

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Originally Posted by kristinka323

the problem is that my huby does not whant a baby yet, so he is always protecting

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I like to start family, but I don't whant him to know.

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but if I do become prego he will love it

What's the REAL story on what he wants?

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we live in diferent states

Why? Are you really married?

kristinka323 · Jan 10, 2011, 09:30 AM

Yes we are married for 4 years... Business.... I just moved in with him...

Wondergirl · Jan 10, 2011, 09:32 AM

So he doesn't want a baby and makes an effort to use protection, but you are sure he will love it if you get pregnant, so you do your best to sneak in unprotected sex whenever you can?

kristinka323 · Jan 10, 2011, 09:53 AM

It's a long story... Plus that was not my question! But thanks for your help WONDERGIRL

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joypulv · Jan 10, 2011, 11:29 AM

So you 'think' you are ready now to spend the next 18 years being responsible for a needy human being, and yet haven't agreed on it with your husband, probably the supporter of both of you for the first several years anyway, unless you plan to let the taxpayer foot the bill?
Heck, I've seen husbands walk out the door the minute they find out their wives pulled this little trick.

kristinka323 · Jan 10, 2011, 11:47 AM

I really don't need an advise on my personal life!

excon · Jan 10, 2011, 11:53 AM

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Originally Posted by kristinka323

I really don't need an advise on my personal life!

Hello k:

So, screwing doggy style isn't about your private life? Girl. You put your life out there... Don't be surprised because people comment...

excon

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