My son's girlfriend is 4 months pregnant. Her own mother will not take her to the doctor,
she is constantly calling her names. Telling her she is going to take the baby from her.
The verbal abuse is BAD, her mother is not doing anything to help the mother of my grandchild. I have been there for the teenage mother, she needs to go to the doctor. She is going to high school full time. She is trying to plan her diploma around having the baby.
But she want to leave her mother's house, I do not have any rights to let her stay with me?? Or do I?? Her mother said she would report her as a runaway, then the court will get involved. Please anyone that has any suggestions... This girl needs HELP!!

Thanks

J_9

Why don't you take her to the doctor?

How old is she?

Sounds like she has a good head on her shoulders, except for getting pregnant while still in school, but lives in an abusive situation.

K_3

You can take her to the doctor, when you go explain what is going on. Depending on her age and the state you are in laws do very. I do not think her mother could do anything about her living with you. The doctor will know the laws and will help you.

tdeboy

She is 16 years old, can I legally sign for her to see the doctor in Indiana? The laws change everyday it seems..

J_9

I am not sure about IN, but here in TN when a teen becomes pregnant, she is a legally emancipated adult.

So, she should be able to sign for herself at the doctor.

Just call a local OBGYN and ask their policies.

K_3

She could also start at a local health department. I would not be at all frightened by her mother. Some people just love to yell, but do nothing. It is not like you could get in any trouble helping the girl. Do what you can now, I believe during pregnancy the baby needs peace. She could always go to court and become emancipated from her mother. I do not think it would lead to that.

J_9

As far as her pregnancy and health is concerned, she may already be considered emancipated and would not need her mother's consent for medical treatment.

K_3

Have to spread it around.....very true. Just take her.

Miranda

Hello, I live in Indy, and am certain that she can see a doctor without her mother. Take her to Planned Parenthood. I really don't think the law will do anything to her if she leaves her mothers house. My sister got pregnant at 16, and took off with the baby. My mom called the police to try and report her as a runaway because she was concerned for the baby. The police told my mother that there really wasn't anything they could do about it.

talaniman

Indiana

There are statutes governing the emancipation of children. They are located under Indiana Code 31-34-20-6.

In order to be emancipated, a child must meet the following criteria:
A. the child wishes to be free from parental control and protection and no longer needs that control and protection
B. the child has sufficient money for the child's own support
C. the child understands the consequences of being free from parental control and protection
D. the child has an acceptable plan for independent living

Unfortunately, children do not understand the implications involved in emancipation. In order to terminate a guardian's right to control of a child, a petition must be filed in a court. Such a process would require an attorney. Although an individual can file a PRO SE petition, they would need to be extremely knowlegeable in family law and civil proceedings. I would imagine that a child with such capabilities would be difficult to come across.

Courts usually grant such petitions under the following circumstances:
A. It would be necessary for a pregnant child to be emancipated so that child can the exclusive right to any and all decisions regarding themselves and their baby.
B. It would be necessary for a child to be emancipated so that child can enter into contract for a business or similar activity.

Courts usually do not grant such petitions in cases where there are parent-child problems unless it is a final solution to the problem.

If you feel that it is necessary to be emancipated and you no longer need to depend on your parent(s), then you should contact a family law attorney to aid you in the process.

There is no automatic emancipation in Indiana, but there are plenty of planned parenthood clinic throughout the state. Do whatever you can for this girl and your grandchild and legally you may not be able to take her into your home but morally you may have to. Let the mother call the police and start building a documented case for abuse on her part. Child Protective Services is an option. Just to ask have you tried talking with this crazy sounding woman??