so i had unprotected sex with someone i knew for a day. I am usually very good about these things but things just got out of control. She went back to the states and i havn't talked to her since nor do i have a way to. I pulled out before i finished but then we continued after that. My question is: Is there any chance of her gettingbecoming pregnant off of this? She didn't seemed to care that it happened and she wasn't worried about it so i kinda assume she was on something but as a strong believer in Murphy's Law i wanted to see if there was any chance that something may come of this.
I am also going to go to the doctor as a general safety check but i kinda wanna hear how stupid i was for doing this from some other people. Also i wanna have some idea of the likely hood of this.
It is Very possible that she could become pregnant. Even when people are on birthcontrol, it can happen(tho chances are much slimmer). Anytime that sperm/semen enters the vagina, (in any way) pregnancy is a possibility. The only sure way to stop pregnancy is abstaining.Good luck!
Yes, it is very stupid. You made a very big mistake. You know why, unlike what anybody else has said. What about Aids, Hiv, Hepititis B,C. I could come up with a whole list. About pregnancy, very well possible but quite honestly If I were you I would be more worried about getting a disease. May sound harsh but very true. You asked for the truth.
You realized you made a mistake and should not be ridiculed for it.
Indeed there is the chance she could become pregnant. Indeed there is the chance either of you could have passed along a sexually transmitted disease.
Indeed you have learned a valuable lesson and will never make that mistake again. I hope the best for you and that things turn out well.
Edited to reflect the edited post previous to mine.. thanks for toning it down some JH
sweetie anytime you have unprotcted sex with anyone you are always running the risk of getting someone pregnant or contracting something from them. There is nothing safe about unprotected sex especially from someone you have only known for a day. Its not as if you were in a commited relationship and there was real Love involved. It was a big mistake but we all have to make them to learn from them. I would go get yourself checked out make sure your health is okay and defenitly try and find this girl. Make sure that she didn't become pregnant. You do share in this blame but it does take two to have sex this mistake is also hers too, and if a preganancy does result from it you do need to know. Good Luck
I am also going to go to the doctor as a general safety check but i kinda wanna hear how stupid i was for doing this from some other people. Also i wanna have some idea of the likely hood of this.
Thanks in advance.
OK, dear, you've heard it from us! Now, once you've gotten the (hopefully) good news from the doctor that you're OK, chuck this up as an experience needed and don't do it again. Always carry a condom with you in case you get lured again.
Good Luck! Keep us posted as to you're 'bill of health'.
I don't see a problem here. You got what you wanted. If you lived according to the rest of the advice here, you would hate your life. Dude, seriously, you had a moment of passion! Congratulations, you have successfully lived out something you wanted to do. Don't regret it.
It's true, your d-ck may fall off or become infested with tiny monsters, but you knew that going into it. It was a calculated risk. Deal with it as it comes, but don't let people tell you that you made a mistake. No regrets man. Imagine how you would have felt if you didn't do it.
I say "kudos to you" for having the audacity to do what you wanted to.