she's being naive

197807 · #1 Apr 26, 2007, 04:27 AM

my friend just found out that she's pregnant recently and she decided ti keep the baby, i'm happy for her, but thing is i feel like only reason why she's keeping it is because of she heard that the guy wants a baby and not because she's ready. she really loves this guy and she'd do anything to keep him around. i'm worried about her

bluerose · Apr 26, 2007, 05:39 AM

Does she have the support of her family? If I were you I wouldn’t worry about her too much. Once she feels the baby growing inside of her and then gives birth and than has him or her place in her arms, she is going to be just fine.

don8 · Apr 26, 2007, 06:27 AM

I have a friend who has three boys by different guys and she kept them for the same reason. Her mom has the oldest and she has the other two. She was not ready for children but things have worked out okay. She is married to the youngest boys dad and they struggle but they are making it. Try not to worry to much your friend has to make her own decisions and all you can do is be there for her. She will need all the support that she can get and things will work out.



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