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Asked Mar 24, 2011, 04:09 PM — 96 Answers
I don't no where too start I'm 14 years of age and have just fell pregnant with a 16 year old I am NOT in a relationship with this boy and don't want too tell him about the baby in fact I don't know whether too even keep the baby I've got my GCSE's next year and I'm not sure what too do I've rang an abortion clinic but I'm still not sure,I need someone else's opinion on this. What would you do if you was in my situation?&by the way I'm 12 weeks pregnant and fount out 3 days ago.

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Mar 24, 2011, 08:29 PM
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im aloud too drink alcohol just not too much but ovbiously when your at a party with no adults your going too drink a lot!.
And there's the difference between being an adult and child. And adults are supposed to be around to supervise children to make sure this sort of thing doesn't happen.


As for the discharge and the cramp- YOU NEED TO TELL YOUR DOCTOR. I'm not encouraging you for or against abortion either way, but I'm getting the impression that is what you may be leaning towards. If you do want to keep the baby, then you need to see a doctor right away. Cramping and bleeding may be nothing, or they may be a sign of something going wrong with the pregnancy. The sooner you speak with your mother and a doctor, the sooner you can start taking care of yourself- whether that means scheduling an abortion, learning about safe sex (or how about even abstinence?!) and responsible drinking or getting yourself some prenatal vitamins and making sure you're eating healthy and all that.
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Mar 24, 2011, 08:34 PM


Do you smell what I smell?

Do you smell what I smell?

A troll

A troll

Playing in the night...

(Sung to the tune of Do You Hear What I Hear)
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Mar 24, 2011, 08:34 PM
JustCurious55
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You have gave me the best advice out of this whole thing and I appreciate it very much so thank you.
Right now I don't an abortions an option for me.
So I think I'm probably going too keep my baby-not 100%though
I need too sort my life out now and I know I do no more parties,drinking,smoking,un-protected sex!anything that's bad for me and for my baby.-if I have my baby.
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& what's a abstinence?
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Mar 24, 2011, 08:37 PM
J9
Theres no need for you on this thread.
Iknow what pregnancy test I took and iknow that it told me how far gone I was you should look it up
"ClearBlue Pregnancy Test"-the only pregnancy test that can tell you around when you concieved.
So bye.
justcurious55 (Mar 24, 2011 08:41 PM): those test are not 100% accurate and you owe J a big apology   Source:
JudyKayTee (Mar 25, 2011 06:20 AM): Agree - threads conflict with each other. Something isn't right here - troll, perhaps?   Source:
J_9 (Mar 25, 2011 07:56 AM): Too many different stories to believe any of this is the truth   Source:
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Mar 24, 2011, 08:38 PM
Abstinence? Do you know what it means to abstain from something? To not do it. Abstain from sex.

I'm glad that you appreciate my advice (although I think it was pretty much the same as everyone else's). I really think you should tell your mother sooner than later about all of this. Whether or not she's on holiday, she needs to know. Especially if you're thinking you might want to keep the baby.
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Mar 24, 2011, 08:41 PM


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Originally Posted by bethanyjaynee View Post
J9
Theres no need for you on this thread.
Iknow what pregnancy test I took and iknow that it told me how far gone I was you should look it up
"ClearBlue Pregnancy Test"-the only pregnancy test that can tell you around when you concieved.
So bye.
Honey, I don't need to look it up. I'm a nurse. And it's impossible to tell how far along you are by urine alone.
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Mar 24, 2011, 08:43 PM
Oh ye I know what too abstain is! Silly me.
And I agree I do need too speek too her so I will ring her tomorrow.
If you have facebook inbox me and I will tell you how the convosation with my mum went
{personal information removed}
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Thankyou once again
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Mar 24, 2011, 08:45 PM
Conception Indicator ? How Far Along Are You?

Ok, here. I looked it up...this seems very fishy. I trust J's experience and knowledge much more than an advertisement that says this test can accurately tell you when you conceived with out any information at all on HOW it works.

So here's another lesson for you today...learn the difference between facts and fiction and how to do research to determine which is which.

And don't be rude to people trying to help you.
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Mar 24, 2011, 08:45 PM
You don't watch telly then do you nurse?
Have you never seen a clearblue pregnancy test on the television?
Because seriously you should look it up because you will be learning something new.
Iknow what test I took TRUST me.
Im not thick.
So you can now leave my thread and go look up a clearblue seen as you don't believe me.
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Mar 24, 2011, 08:47 PM


Sorry -- just had to pop back in --

From ClearBlue's site --

"If you are pregnant, you're probably curious to find out when your baby is due.
Just answer the two questions below and let us estimate your most likely due date."

And the dates you enter are your own best guess. Nothing definite there.
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