After my marriage came foraway from native,nobody is there.I know only my husband he is my only relation,I'm not working

Do you have friends where you live that you can talk to? Do you communicate with your family or friends back home? Can you get a job where you live?

I too am concerned about how much worry you have over your husband's reaction. That he "goes psycho" when you mention possibly being pregnant, or that he is so fearful that you won't have attention for him if you had a baby, to the point of not having sex with you, is not normal behavior.

Are you fearful of your husband?

Do you have any interests or hobbies that can help you relieve some stress? They can also be a way to make new friends in the place that you are currently living.

If he doesn't want you making friends, then there is another warning sign that his need to be the only thing in your life will get worse.

To take care of him, you need to take care of yourself. The healthier you are mentally, emotionally, and physically the healthier your marriage will be.

No I am not fear for my husband,he is so caring,from the day we married I didn't feel lonely,even if he goes to office he will be messaging are he will speak to me when ever he gets time.. and if I ask him anything he will never say no so if I want to work I can work.. he will surely allow me,only thing he asked me is he don't need child now,so I want to obey him because he is so good,, if I'm pregnant it will hurt him badly there is chance for hating me that is my fear... because when he told about this he was crying and I felt very bad..

If he's as wonderful and caring as you say then there's no way he could hate you because of something the two of you made together. The fact that you think he would hate you tells me he's not as wonderful as you seem to think he is.

Fact is, you've had periods since the last time you had sex. I don't know why you still assume that you're pregnant.

Have you taken a pregnancy test? Buy one, follow the instructions. When it comes back negative then perhaps that will set your mind at ease, seeing as nothing we've said has seemed to do the trick.

Where to buy it,do you know how much it cost?

What country do you live in now? It will help us know what resources are available to you.

Most stores that carry contraceptives also carry home pregnancy tests. As for cost, that depends on the test and the store. In the US, they can be as low as a couple of dollars.

The main thing is to follow directions and take the test when you first use the bathroom in the morning. The hormone level is more concentrated.

Good luck. :)

I'm in india...

Cough,white discharge,very weight feeling near throat is that symptoms of pregnant?

No.

Thank you

Can you please tell me pregnency symptoms?

Please tell me what is symptoms of pregnency..

There are many sites - here is one: Pregnancy - Information, Tools & Timeline | BabyCenter

Are you honestly still thinking that you're pregnant?

The major symptom of pregnancy is no period. You've had your period every month for 3 months since the last time you had sex!

Have you tried a pregnancy test like we suggested, or do you just want to go by symptoms and end up worrying for the next 6 months?

You should know that pregnancy symptoms and PMS, and many illnesses, are exact.

The only way to confirm a pregnancy is with a pregnancy test, either over the counter, or at your doctors office.

So get a test, pee on the stick, and when it turns negative, maybe then you'll finally believe that you're not pregnant. :(

I have a feeling you're right. I think that even in 6 months, which will be 9 months after she had sex, she'll still think she's pregnant, even though she hasn't given birth to a child.

I don't know what else we can say at this point. We have told her time and time again that the fact that she's had her period every month since she had sex, means she's not pregnant, yet she still thinks she is.

I for one don't feel like repeatedly banging my head on the wall telling someone the facts, when she won't listen.

If the OP wants help with her other issues, I'm more then willing to give advice. But, if she asks one more time whether she's pregnant, without taking a pregnancy test, I will report this thread. I think we're all done giving advice to deaf ears.

Itsme, how much do you want children? I don't want to hear about what your husband wants. I want to know what you want.

What are your expectations for having children? Do you think the families would be more welcoming when grandchildren come along? Do you think that a child will replace the family that you left behind? Do you think a child will give you unconditional love and make your life and family unit complete?

I think itsme is as hopeful as she is scared and worried. Taking the test would be devastating either way.

I'm with Alty - I think it's time to close this thread. It's taking up time and energy and I believe there are other issues at play here. Nothing we can say is going to make a difference.

I agree. I do think that deep down she's hoping that she is, while hoping that she isn't.

But sitting there worrying about it every day isn't doing her any good, and obviously what we're telling her isn't doing any good either.

It's time for her to take a test so she can stop worrying. She may be upset, but better then sitting around for the next 6 months wondering and worrying.

We've done and said all we can. She just keeps coming back asking if she's pregnant. We can't pee on the stick for her, only she can do that.

This thread has gone as far as it can. It's up to the OP to read the advice she's been given, and decide where to go from there. There's really nothing left to be said.