Asked Oct 27, 2009, 09:51 AM
Hi, My name is Leon and I'm in the worst situation I have ever been in my entire life:
Well here's my story, this will be a long one, but please read as I really really need help.
Back in 2005, a friend of mine was very in love with me, and I didn't realise but we became such good friends that of course I knew we should take it to the next level and we started going out together ( at this time we were 14/15 )
She was the most amazing girlfriend ever, she would answer every call, be there at any time and never once let me down and I would do the same. We spent everyday together because we felt that's all we could ever need..
Well... We continued like this for the best part of 3 years..
Everyday together, my friends became her friends and well, she became my best friend. I would turn to her a lot faster for advice than even my friends or family!
And she really clearly loved me with all her heart! ( since late 2006 she had stayed at mine most nights of every week, and basically lived with me )
Anyway.. In 2008 I moved into my own place, ( both age 17 ) and we lived together in an apartment, I spent a lot making it into a home for us both, and we seemed to settle down really well. Felt very mature to be honest.. To have our own XMAS tree and such in our own property, fely very heart warming to see the same girl I had for 3 years, still happy together.
March 6th 2009 - We found out she was pregnant, around 3 weeks gone at the time.
I was over the moon, I was so happy.. She was the only person I would ever want children with, she after all, was my life!
Things started going bad from here...
She would leave our home, and return to her parents, and not turn her phone on or answer any txts/emails/calls/msn no nothing.. For weeks at a time..
We seemed to work past this eventually but one night she did this..
I flipped. I overdosed and was rushed to hospital and was on the poisons ward..
Over the time I spent inside there, no one had even heard from her! She just didn't care!
When I came out, I had a drink at my place with a friend...
Anyway.. Few months later I had a huge legal battle... With a sentence of 16+ years.. And it didn't look good. ( I won't state why )
Anyway, after losing my property, moving to parents, she moving back with hers
After 5 months apart we hardly even spoke. Let alone met up!
But, after 5 months ( september 2009 ) they court ruled a not guilty verdict as both people accusing.. Had admited making it all up.
So we were free at last, and now I'm trying to rebuild what we have lost..
But she hasn't come to see me once, every time I try to see her she goes out,never answers the fone.. And ALWAYS arranges to meet but doesn't show up ( every single time! )
She says she loves me but how can she?
Anyway my child is due anytime soon and I need to know where I stand
But she won't contact me and never answers me when I try!
I offered to buy a new house but she refused and now I'm stuck
The girl who once loved me so much
Now seems to get pleasure from hurting me
( in fact she acrtually addmited: " I like hurtimng you because I like being chased and like feeling wanted " )
HOW SICK IS THAT- after knowing her games drove me to suicide?!?
What do I do :'(