I am 15 years old, turning 16 next month on June 14th. I had sex for the first time on Saturday.. It is Monday right now. I had sex around my ovulation time. I've cried numerous times and I don't know what to do. My best-friend knows and my sister knows. He didn't use a condom. He pulled out though and I know you can still get pregnant by doing that. But he told me that he's done that before and the girl didn't get pregnant and I believe him. Plus, I heard that guys that do drugs or have done drugs have weak sperm.. Roddie use to do drugs... My entire life would fall apart if I was pregnant and I am crying typing this out. I have no one else to ask or talk about this with thats why I'm writing. I am planning on taking a pregnancy test but I dont know how long I am supposed to wait. My period is really really wacked out. I get it at different times of the month, and sometimes I skip a period. My mom was going to put me on birth control to regulate it but she didnt. I am so scared. I don't know what to do. It was my first time. I always wanted my first time to be special but it wasn't. This was a huge mistake and I am so scared.. please help me? What am I suppose to do? When can I take a pregnancy test? Am I pregnant? Please help me.
Sincerely,
Anonymous Teen

brandy681

I doubt that you are pregnant allthough it is always a possibility when you have un-protected sex. Me and my husband have been using the pull out method for 7 years and I have never got pregnant and my best friend does the same thing also and has not got pregnant. Me and my husband are not ready to have kids but are willing to accept the responsibility if something does happen and that is why we take the risk. I have been on different kinds of birth control which gave me horrible side effects and my doctor took me off without my wanting to get off of the pill. We also use condoms sometimes but not often and so we are willing to take the repsonsibilies if I do get pregnant. If I had to guess I would have to say that using the pull out method and it only being one time that ya had sex, I think it is a 90% probability that you are NOT pregnant.

fix-what-you-broke

i would get checked out for STD`s if i were you.here you have a guy who sleeps with people without protection..you are almost 16, do the right thing and at least protect yourself. there is a long life ahead of you, dont ruin it by getting pregnant or getting an STD that could make you infertile.
get yourself a test, and if it is negative,always always use protection in the future

keri2007

It's only Tuesday. You can take the morning after pill up to 5 days after unprotected sex. The pamplet says 72 hours which is 3 days, and each day after that, the chances of it working decrease. If you take it today, you'll be ok. I was 18 the first time I had sex and the condom broke. I waited 4 days before I went to get it and I didn't get pregnant.

I live in California and all I have to do is go to a Pharmacy and ask for Plan B, or emergency contraception. You fill out paperwork. It costs $25. Take the first pill right away and the second one 12 hours later (even if 12 hours later is in the middle of the night, set an alarm.)

If you don't have $25 or the pharmacy will not give it to you. Go to Planned Parenthood or the county clinic and they can help you from there.

Good luck!