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Pregnancy and Relationships How Do I Handle This Stuff
my ex gurl she's just not who she is when i first met her, she's moody, does not care about how i feel, doesn't want to have sex with me and has said she has found a new man and im VERY DEPRESSED. i'm just afraid she's going to treat me like this after she gives birth! SHE HAS ACCUSED ME OF CHEATING EVEN THOUGH I NEVER HAVE.! IS IT WRONG FOR A FEMALE TO BREAK UP WITH HER CHILDS FATHER AT 5months PREG ADN FIND A NEW MAN THAT NOT GOOD FOR HER???????? EVEN WHEN YOU WANT HER BACK AND WANT TO FIX EVERTHING??? HOW DO I HANDLE THIS ALL I FEEL SO SAD N ANGRY EVERY DAY
my ex gurl she's just not who she is when i first met her, she's moody, does not care about how i feel, doesn't want to have sex with me and has said she has found a new man and im VERY DEPRESSED. i'm just afraid she's going to treat me like this after she gives birth! SHE HAS ACCUSED ME OF CHEATING EVEN THOUGH I NEVER HAVE.! IS IT WRONG FOR A FEMALE TO BREAK UP WITH HER CHILDS FATHER AT 5months PREG ADN FIND A NEW MAN THAT NOT GOOD FOR HER???????? EVEN WHEN YOU WANT HER BACK AND WANT TO FIX EVERTHING??? HOW DO I HANDLE THIS ALL I FEEL SO SAD N ANGRY EVERY DAY
She is your ex girlfriend, right?
She has accused you of cheating, that tells me that she is trying to take the attention off of herself and that when she was with you she was the one that was cheating. I can not prove that, but that is the way it sounds to me.
Maybe your not the father? How do you know for sure, she has proven that she is not trust worthy. When the baby is born. Paternity testing is a must to find out if your truly the father or not.
Sorry but you can not fix somebody. You can not fix everything. Your feeling sad and angry because you can not control how somebody acts towards you. You need to realize that there is nothing you can do to make somebody care for you. You can not change anybody. This person has made their own personal choices and quite honestly I think you are better off without her.
The baby on the other hand is truly innocent in all of this and I truly feel sad about the situation the baby is being born into, but that was not your choice. That was the mothers choice.
I hope you take to heart my opinions and thoughts on your situation. Be smart and if you are the father make sure you fight for your rights to be in your childs life.
WELL I WANT HER IN MY LIFE I WANT TO BE THE FATHER BUT SHE ACCUSED ME OF CHEATING CAUSE I LEFT SOME COMMENTS ON MYSPACE DAT WHERE NO SERIOUS TO AND OLD BEST FRIEND OF HER's I HAVE FOUND OUT ALOT OF DARK STUFF ABOUT HER SHE HAS CHEATED ON ME OF LEFT ME FOR AN OLDER EX CO-WORKER THAT NEARLY 40 SHE IS 20 YEARS ODL SHE HAS TOLD MY MOM N HER COUSIN THAT SHE DONT WANT ME AND THAT IM IMMATURE CAN I DONT TRUST HER SHE HAS TOLD ME STUFF LIKE SHE WANTS TO JOIN A GANG!!! SHE LIVES IN BROOKLYN NYC AND I LIVE IN NEWARK IN NJ im 24 I WORK BUT LOVE WITH MY MOM N SHE IS 20 N HASNT WORKED EVER SINCE I MET HER. ITS NOT FAIR I HGAVE DONE NOTHIN BUT KISSED UP TOO HER SINCE I MET HER SHE WAS TRUE WIFEY MATERIAL TILL SHE GOT PREG BY ME. NOW SHE DONT EVEN WANT ME CALLING HER SHE IS ALSO MAD AT ME CAUSE I HAVNT BEEN THERE FOR HER MONEY WISE WIT MED BILLS FOR THE PREG. I TOLD HER I CANT PALY THEM CAUSE THERE NOT MY BILLS IKNOW THAT MEAN BUT I DONT MAKE ALOT OF MONEY I FEEL THAT HER FAM IS LYING tO ME AND THAT NOT MY KID BUT I WANT THAT CHIL TO BE MINE RVEN THOUGH HIS MOTHER DONT LIKE ME ANYMORE YES SHE HAVING A BOY I JUS FEEL LIKE A LOSER AND IM ANGRY EVERYDAY SO ANGRY I DNT GO TO WORK
She has accused you of cheating, that tells me that she is trying to take the attention off of herself and that when she was with you she was the one that was cheating. I can not prove that, but that is the way it sounds to me.
Maybe your not the father? How do you know for sure, she has proven that she is not trust worthy. When the baby is born. Paternity testing is a must to find out if your truly the father or not.
Sorry but you can not fix somebody. You can not fix everything. Your feeling sad and angry because you can not control how somebody acts towards you. You need to realize that there is nothing you can do to make somebody care for you. You can not change anybody. This person has made their own personal choices and quite honestly I think you are better off without her.
The baby on the other hand is truly innocent in all of this and I truly feel sad about the situation the baby is being born into, but that was not your choice. That was the mothers choice.
I hope you take to heart my opinions and thoughts on your situation. Be smart and if you are the father make sure you fight for your rights to be in your childs life.
Joe
Writting everything in capitals is not going to change my mind about what I wrote. Everything you said in your second post just confirms what I said originally. So it is time for you to stop feeling for yourself and actually make a difference and make choices in your own life to continue making ends meet. To continue to fight for your right to find out if your the father or not. You are better off without her and she is just going to cheat on you again.
Best thing you can do, is lift yourself up. Get off your butt and go back to work. If you do not do this your just setting up yourself to be a failure. Is this what you really want. Please understand I am just telling you what I see as the truth and you need to continue living your life.
Writting everything in capitals is not going to change my mind about what I wrote. Everything you said in your second post just confirms what I said originally. So it is time for you to stop feeling for yourself and actually make a difference and make choices in your own life to continue making ends meet. To continue to fight for your right to find out if your the father or not. You are better off without her and she is just going to cheat on you again.
Best thing you can do, is lift yourself up. Get off your butt and go back to work. If you do not do this your just setting up yourself to be a failure. Is this what you really want. Please understand I am just telling you what I see as the truth and you need to continue living your life.
are you sure?? this is the right way i mean im so in love with her but i have nearly lost my life cuase of her i was attacked on mother day by a male friend of her's she was also smoking weed on mother day. i think i need to ask her mother some advice b4 i mean we had a goo thing goin then it all went down hill im so depressed im in a very deep now everything im doin is bad luck. i dont deserve to by any kid dad im not not wanted or loved by anybody
First thing you need to do is stop feeling sorry for yourself. Sheesh, boy no one wants to be around someone who says things like "i dont deserve to by any kid dad im not not wanted or loved by anybody" Personally I would run for the hills too if my man talked like that.
Get a backbone, dude.
Now, why did you two break up? How old are the two of you?
Is it cool for a gurl to find a new man while pregnant even though she broke up with you for the wrong reasons????????? is that putting the baby at risk or being unhealthy is it also bad for gurl to smoke weed while 5 months preg. im just so sad my gurl has left me and i dnt know if the kid is mine her cousins are bad influence on her??? and they along with her decisions have messed us up im 24 and she is 20 she is acting very immature and her family dont like me at least some of them.
First thing you need to do is stop feeling sorry for yourself. Sheesh, boy no one wants to be around someone who says things like "i dont deserve to by any kid dad im not not wanted or loved by anybody" Personally I would run for the hills too if my man talked like that.
Get a backbone, dude.
Now, why did you two break up? How old are the two of you?
HOW DO I HANDLE THIS ALL I FEEL SO SAD N ANGRY EVERY DAY
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