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Hello I am 23 years old and My partner and I are looking to have a baby the problem is we are both males. I know that most people find it wrong in many ways for two men or two women to have a child together. Right now myself and my partner would like to adopt a child, but it is not right for us to. So right now our last resort is to turn to someone that is willing for a gay couple to raise a child as there own. Is there anyway this is possible? Can someone help us in anyway?
Please see this link, I have posted a few websites on it that might help you with your problem. By the way, yes people do find it wrong, but that it THEIR problem, not yours. If you are in a committed loving relationship and can provide a loving, safe, and stable environment for a child, that is all anyone can ask for. It would be nice to change the world though, wouldn't it? Good luck!
I checked out the link RudyPitbull gave and just wanted to add that you may want to hire an attorney as well. Unfortunately most people aren't as trustworthy as we would like. My brother is also homosexual, and would like to use a surrogate in the future, so if you find any good sites please feel free to send them to me. Thanks and good luck!
Why can't you adopt? Is it for legal reasons or your own personal reasons? I'm not sure how it works in other countries. I personally am not keen on the idea of a surrogate, not when there are so many beautiful babies out there looking for good homes. But I guess thats up to the individual. The laws here on surrogates are totally different too.
You typically can't adopt in the united states if you are in a homosexual relationship. My brother is also talking about adopting a child from India. I believe you can adopt outside of the country, but they usually don't let you inside the country. It's very difficult.
It is a shame. If two people are ready and willing to love a child I dont think their sexual preference should be an issue. I think adopting a child from another country is a wonderful idea, as long as you are certain you can bring them home.
It is a shame. If two people are ready and willing to love a child I dont think their sexual preference should be an issue. I think adopting a child from another country is a wonderful idea, as long as you are certain you can bring them home.
Yes,sadly homophobia is alive and thriving here in the states. Just look back at 9/11 -- pat robertson said it was his gods wrath for allowing gays to be happy. -- Savage
Well, some people are far from sane. It just seems nuts that people cant except reality. In England we seem to be progressing very suddenly. Our government are working really hard to deal with discrimination, sadly at the expense of other equally important issues but never mind, so same sex families are on there way. I hope.
Sleeper, I think that you are extremely out of line! Who are you to tell someone that you hope they don't get a child? I'm sure that you don't "believe" in a homosexual lifestyle because you are too afraid of homosexuals to actually get to know anyone who might be. I may or may not be "for" same sex marriage, but that is none of your business. I do, however, believe that if two individuals love and care for one another and are emotionally capable to raise a child, they have every right to do so. Now I'm sure you are probably thinking, "How could two homosexuals be emotionally capable?" Don't worry, I've heard them all. The fact that someone may be homosexual has nothing to do with their mentality. I could just as easily say that you are ignorant, therefor you should not be able to breed. We don't want to spread the growth of nonthinkers like yourself. However, that is not something I would say. I think that you should have simply kept your thoughts to yourself. No where on this post did it ask if you would please put your two cents in and degrade an individual just because you don't understand homosexuals. They are people just like you and me. I believe this post was for information on surrogate mothers. Hang on..... oh wait, it is! (I had to read it again to make sure). And yes that was sarcasm. Please don't be so rude again. This is a wonderful site for people to ask questons and recieve answers, not to be demeaned for their lifestyle.
You're right, it was meant as a joke. If you recall it was hypothetical! Reguardless of how you feel about it, and the excuse of saying you're sorry doesn't mean you should have posted it. Did anyone ask if you didn't get homosexuals or their relationships? No. Did anyone ask if you thought they should have a child or not? No.
I also don't understand how you came up with the idea that I haven't had a well rounded life by my post. Because my brother is gay?
Besides, you did say "please dont come at me like that ok," but I don't think that J_perry23 asked you to come at him like that. You are a complete fool.
Good luck!
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