| first u have to tell your parents or some elders abt this.though it is upto u and your boyfriend to decide abt the baby,i would advice u to listen to the advice of grownups because u guys are still teenagers.think abt yourself in the next 10 years.if u want to pursue college education or if u r career minded , having a child will hinder it.another major problem is finance.obviously both of u are still students.even if u r working it wont be enough to comfortably support a family .finally(i know u wont like this piece of advice),do u really think your relationship with your boyfriend is going to be long term?there are so many ways a relationship could break up.if that happens you will be a single mother.let me tell u that will be a tough situation,especially for a teenager.so make the best choice with a thought abt your future. |