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I am a twenty year old woman desperatly trying for a child. I know I am young but I have a stable home, stable job, with a loving partner and more than enough money so please do not advise me of being too young. The problem is that I have been trying for around four months and nothing, I am slightly overweight but not alot, I eat semi-healthily, but have changed my routines, everytime i see a baby, i literally cry. I find myself feeling extremely jelous, is this normal?
I have never been because i am only 20 and have had no health problems, i have been planning this for a long time, and had i of known HOW TO GET PREGNANT i wouldnt be here for advise!!!!!! Yes i need to see my doctor, but just mentioning it would have been enough, i really dont need the lectures
Most women go to the doctor beginning at age 16, or when they become sexually active, whichever comes first.
Some health problems do not have symptoms. Especially women's reproductive systems.
We are not really trying to lecture you, we are trying to shed light on how really hard it is to be a mother.
Look, let's say you have been sexually active since 18, but have had multiple partners (I am not saying you have, okay) these women are at risk for many STDs that do not have any symptoms until 20 or 30 years later. Then it is too late because the disease is in the brain.
This is just one reason why it is important to go to the doctor once a year.
An STI known as Clamydia is awful - it in many cases has no symptoms - you can go for a long time not knowing you have it and without treatment you can end up infertile! - Like J_9 has said we are not trying to lecture you just point out facts which we know about and have experience of.