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Old Nov 12, 2006, 11:21 AM
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It's making me so down :(

I am a twenty year old woman desperatly trying for a child. I know I am young but I have a stable home, stable job, with a loving partner and more than enough money so please do not advise me of being too young. The problem is that I have been trying for around four months and nothing, I am slightly overweight but not alot, I eat semi-healthily, but have changed my routines, everytime i see a baby, i literally cry. I find myself feeling extremely jelous, is this normal?

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Old Nov 12, 2006, 12:33 PM   #11  
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I have never been because i am only 20 and have had no health problems, i have been planning this for a long time, and had i of known HOW TO GET PREGNANT i wouldnt be here for advise!!!!!! Yes i need to see my doctor, but just mentioning it would have been enough, i really dont need the lectures
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Old Nov 12, 2006, 12:34 PM   #12  
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. Have you worked out the days you ovulate???
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Old Nov 12, 2006, 12:36 PM   #13  
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Most women go to the doctor beginning at age 16, or when they become sexually active, whichever comes first.

Some health problems do not have symptoms. Especially women's reproductive systems.

We are not really trying to lecture you, we are trying to shed light on how really hard it is to be a mother.

Look, let's say you have been sexually active since 18, but have had multiple partners (I am not saying you have, okay) these women are at risk for many STDs that do not have any symptoms until 20 or 30 years later. Then it is too late because the disease is in the brain.

This is just one reason why it is important to go to the doctor once a year.

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DJ 'H' agrees: Yes I went to the docs when I started having sex; I have also been for regular checks for sti's even though I am careful and use protection just because you never know - also been for smears to make sure I do not have cancer tissue down there.
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An STI known as Clamydia is awful - it in many cases has no symptoms - you can go for a long time not knowing you have it and without treatment you can end up infertile! - Like J_9 has said we are not trying to lecture you just point out facts which we know about and have experience of.
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i was tested last year for all sti's and i had nothing
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But I thought you have never been to the doc? Maybe we are confusing something.

Have you had your yearly PAP smear at the GYN?

I thought you never had been.
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One thing you still have not answered - Have you worked out the days you ovulate???
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How regular are your periods?

How often do you have sex in trying to get pregnant?

If you can answer the 3 questions H and I have asked you maybe we can help more.
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How regular are your periods?

How often do you have sex in trying to get pregnant?

If you can answer the 3 questions H and I have asked you maybe we can help more.

We are trying to help you - but unless you work with us here we can't!
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I know we gave you a lecutre, but sometimes reality has to smack us in the face to wake us up.

I am sure H will agree with that one!!!!!!

We just wanted to provide you with cold hard facts so that you are sure you are making the right decision.

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