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ok my mom doesnt know i have sex...and she will die if i tell her im pregnant and i cant tell her but i cant go to the docs anyway cause she is always always in the room with me.. and my doctor will tell her ..and when she gets the bill wont it say pregnancy test i really really need help!!! i am soooo cunfused what do i tell her
You need to tell her the truth. How old are you? You put yourself in that situation and it is up to you to take care of the baby. Some people will try to make decisions for you but remember no matter what it is your decision on what needs to be done.
Assuming it is evident - and you are firmly convinced - that your mother loves you:
Take as many deep breaths as you need: and hmbly tell her.
I promise you, Jessie, you will FEEL the load off your heart and back afterwards. Yes, It might be a few hours or days afterwards, but it will be worth it.
I agree with the other answers. Jessie, you will need to see a doctor, so tell your mother as soon as possible. Don't be afraid to tell her, sit down and talk to her or write her a letter. You are your mother's daughter no matter what the situation is, your mother will get a little worried at first, but she will be supportive of you.
If my 14 year old daughter were pregnant, I'd want to know immediately so that she wouldn't feel so alone. It's scary, but so what, it needs to be done. Yes, I'd be mad as hell and my reaction may put the fear of heck into her, but I would not stop loving her for one millisecond! I know how scary and confusing it can be for a young girl to be in that situation. I'm sure all of your friends are telling you what to do, but stop, and for once, listen to a grown up. We have a little, no actually alot more experience then a teenager. Do it soon, before your bf tells his mom, you don't want her to know before yours.
I got knocked up without being married, my bf didn't want to be a dad. I was sure my mom would hit the roof and my dad would disown me. Boy, was I wrong. My mom said she already knew just by the way I was acting and how I was feeling and my dad hugged me, kissed me and said "we're here for you!" Unless she's gonna physically beat you down, tell her today!
Whether your mom or anyone else knows you have sex now is not the issue anymore, they all will soon enough. You should have thought about this before doing it unprotected and with the b/f of your sister. He sure had a lot of fun and does not respect either of you. You need to see a doctor for more reasons than just to check you out for pregnancy, but also STD and HIV and lord know what other dangers.
Believe us, your mom will be there for you, even if she restricts you and yells at you - it certainly can't be worse than it is now. Can you imagine what she'll feel like if she's the last to know - put yourself in her shoes for just one minute, and stop messing your life up more than it is now. The worst thing you can do to your mother if you love her is not trust her enough to make the right judgment and take care of you no matter what. Don't make her feel like the dirty end of the stick here, please. She does not deserve this. If you take a real hard look at your situation, the only one that will really be there for you is your mom - so do the right thing. You are not the only 14 year old in this situation, unfortunately, so get the support and help from your mom, please. No matter what, this is not going to be easy, so get it over with and you'll feel a lot better. "Fessing up, is part of growing up"!
I was very very young when I lost my virginity. I don't regret anything in my life .... even that because it has helped me learn. When I was first pregnant with my oldest and I told my mother sure she ranted and raved but you know what... that first reaction was just that a knee jerk reaction. After that she was supportive and was very helpful in those first few baths and feedings and I wouldn't give that up for anything. So have faith in your mom you might even be suprised to see she already knows... Us moms can be insightful as well as play dumb. We know whats normal for our children and how they should act, walk, talk, breath when they're sleeping. Regardless of your mistakes and serious need to have a fat reality slap. Try not to stress too much and trust your mom to take care of you. She's done it since before your birth and no matter what the age of adulthood where you are. She will continue to do so.... Take heart hun, delaying the inevetable wont make you feel better. Keep us posted too. We would like to be able to not worry about you either since most of us here are either parents or have neices or nephew's that are your age we do care. hope everything go's ok.
Jessie, is a young girl that is afraid to tell her mother that she is pregnant, and the last thing she wants to read is how mad and upset her mother is going to be at her. So Rick, Jesushelper and I tried to get her to tell her mother without mentioning how upset the mother would be because she might delay telling her. I hope she did inform her mother because this young girl is going to need to see a doctor right away.
i am soooo cunfused what do i tell her
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