Ok...here is my problem.....a few months ago I visited my parents and my mom asked if I were pregnant. She said that I looked like I was and acted like I was and my husband agreed. I took the home test and it sad no and then I went to a doctor but he refused to look at me cause the home test said no, so I gave up and just decided I was getting fat and that is all there is to it.... well just last week my parents came to visit and my mom asked me again if I was sure or not if I was pregnant and I said no. she insisted that I looked even more pregnant than last time I saw her and still acted like it...(I have the perfect basketball shaped tummy and I have all the signs). So I took another test and it still said no...I have my period every month, but so did my mom and my older sister and the test said no to my sister too and she has 2 kids.... I don’t know what to think anymore

startover22

You need to go to a different doctor because you need peace of mind....That pretty much sums it up. Or I would insist that my doctor give me the test.....

skyy_06

my insurance wont pay for anything unless i get a positive. i dont have the money to just go and get the doctor to test me. the only way i think i can is if i lie and say i had a positive but i dont know if that is a good idea or not.

beenaroundtheblock

This is the real world! LIE and get over it. Your possible baby and your health is at stake here you can say "I must have read the test wrong" if it comes to that.

skyy_06

thanks, i might just do that and see what happens.....

beenaroundtheblock

My wife has reprimanded me. She says to try a free clinic or family planning clinic for a small amount that will give you a proper physical test.

startover22

How about how you feel....do you feel pregnant?
You don't have to tell anyone you took the test, then the next doctor you go to will give you one. A free clinic is a great idea...

skyy_06

you have a smart wife.....i should do that first....im just afraid to do these things by myself.....my husband is always working and thinks im a baby cause i wont go places on my own...i just need to get the guts

skyy_06

i feel pregnant i guess, im only 20 and not all that bright.... i have read all the signs online and i have most of them and have had for the past 2 or 3 monthes.....my tummy also looks like it has a small basketball that keeps getting bigger....dont know if its just in my brain or what.....

startover22

You really need to go sweet. it will put your mind at ease whether it is a yes or no. You need to know.