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Old Oct 22, 2009, 07:05 AM
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Do you think i'm pregnant?

I'm 15 and I think that I could be pregnant. Me and my boyfriend used protection but when he came the condom fell off in me. It was INSIDE me. I'm worried that semen came out of the condom. I think it was my first day of ovulation. It has only been 4 days since that happened. I know my mom will help me ... I'm not so sure about my dad. If he kicks me out I know his mom will let me live with them. My boyfriend knows that I could be pregnant and he is working 2 jobs; well has been. I'm getting a job in January when i have my restricted license ... at least I'm going to try and get one. I'm not scared about being pregnant. Also, I'm not asking this question for negative input. I just want to know what are my chances that I'm pregnant?

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Old Oct 22, 2009, 07:15 AM   #2  
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Your chances are 50/50. You now have to wait until you miss your period, then test using first morning urine.

Remember that there are health consequences involved with being pregnant at your age.
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Old Oct 22, 2009, 07:19 AM   #3  
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Yes, I know there is ... if I am pregnant all I want is for my baby to be healthy. I wont even know if i am pregnant for a while ... and the "baby" has already become my world...
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Old Oct 22, 2009, 01:02 PM   #4  
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you could b pregant.
look at me im 15 me and my boyfriend has had sex 4 times. only twice with a condom. i think im pregant. the only difference between our stories is that my mom most likely wont agree with my pregancy and my dad wont neither. i cant tell my parents. only me and my boyfriend and a friend know. it harder for me than you. just maybe look at the bright side (if there is one) you will have someone that will always love you and that you will always love. only thing bad is that both me and you are WAYYYYY TOO YOUNG TOO B DEALING WITH THIS.!
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Old Oct 22, 2009, 07:26 PM   #5  
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my mom was a pregnant teen she's really open about things...me and my bf have only had sex about that many times..but we always used a condom..but condoms aren't 100 percent ]:...and the whole having someone who will always love you thing is exaclty what i told my boyfriend.........yea we are way to young to deal with this..but...ig this is the consequence**sp** that come with doing grown up things
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look at the bright side (if there is one) you will have someone that will always love you and that you will always love. only thing bad is that both me and you are WAYYYYY TOO YOUNG TOO B DEALING WITH THIS.!
Ladies, this isn't the "bright" side. Babies aren't born loving you. They are born totally and completely dependent on you. Babies don't have the ability to love for several years.

Teens typically mistake bonding with love, but that is furthest from the truth. Babies are capable of eating, peeing, pooping, sleeping and crying. They depend on you for EVERYTHING. When you have been awake for over 24 hours with a sick crying colicy baby, you won't really be feeling the love either. Take it from me. I am not only a labor and delivery/nursery nurse, but also a mother of 4.

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Altenweg agrees: I remember the second day Jared was home, when I was so tired I couldn't see straight. At one point I actually thought to myself "I hate this kid!" Babies, you love them, but really, if the dog could do what we did the baby wouldn't care.
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Old Oct 22, 2009, 08:00 PM   #7  
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Ladies, this isn't the "bright" side. Babies aren't born loving you. They are born totally and completely dependent on you. Babies don't have the ability to love for several years.

Teens typically mistake bonding with love, but that is furthest from the truth. Babies are capable of eating, peeing, pooping, sleeping and crying. They depend on you for EVERYTHING. When you have been awake for over 24 hours with a sick crying colicy baby, you won't really be feeling the love either. Take it from me. I am not only a labor and delivery/nursery nurse, but also a mother of 4.
she is right, I'm 19 with two kids, my little girl is a year old next month and i'm due any day with my son, there are many nights i wish i wasn't a mother at my age, it is hard. plus at your age i wasn't doing what you are doing, all i have to say if you are be ready to grow up and accept a beautiful joyful child, just remember they didnt ask to be here, there will be many every FOUR hour feeding and you have to do it, they DEPEND on YOU!
I would love to be away at college, or out partying, just realize you are only young once and you dont have to have sx and if you are and i know you are or you wouldn't be here asking IF IM PREGNANT, be safe, use every type of birth control you can,
I'm not looking down on you, but live your teenage life to the fullest, it's hard being in the real world going to school, working, raising kids, making sure they have everything they need and want, making sure your bills are paid. you don't realize it until you are doing it alone, and plus if you are pregnant are you sure the guy will stick around just to let you know i thought that tooo my little girls daddy lefted when she was three days old, and i dont hear from him but maybe once every four months, and he won't pay child support soi have been doing it alone with him. just think about what you are doing?
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I understand a sick screaming baby ... my sister lives with us she has a baby ... she hasn't finished "growing up" so I've had to take care of him plenty of times to understand that. I understand about most things about taking care of a baby. I know it will be harder once it is my own ... my mom had all 4 of us kids young but she did it ... and none of us have ever had to do without. I think I can do the same for my baby (if I'm pregnant). I don't think that at all times I'm going to be the best parent in the world but I'm going to try my hardest to be every second of the day. I can still get my education and be a teenager and be a mom .. I know I can. If I am not pregnant I'm going to do what i was planning on doing and waiting till marriage to have sex again. It was a mistake for me to lose my virginity in the first place. Hormones got the best of me. I know you're thinking that I just said I was planning on waiting till marriage but I did it anyways but after this kind of scare I'm waiting. To tell the truth I'm actually a really good girl .. and none of this was what I planned. But, If this is what is intended for me than so be it. I don't believe in abortions and I believe I can give my baby a good home life so there's no need for adoption. I can't turn back time and I can't fix any of my mistakes. All I can do is learn from them.
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All I'm saying, if you are life will be hard
and i'm sorry to say, you won't have no teenage years like normal highchool life,
i thought the same thing, i just graduated this
past may, and that night i was home with my little girl, all i'm saying is IF you are be ready to change everything, and no it not a mistake,
it just have waited, my kids are no mistake, they are really the best thing that happen to me, and right now, don't be stressing over being pregnant if youre not it will throw your period off.
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I get that my life will be hard...babies cost a lot of money. But, if I am pregnant I know my mom will help me take care of it. And so will his mom. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now. We lost our virginity's to each other in the 11th month. I've never drank, did drugs, partied, smoked...nothing. I just chose to show my love in a grown up way. As for birth control, my doctor wont let me get it until he can check if I have Endometriosis, becuase he thinks i have it. My mom has been delaying the apointment every month. But, me and my boyfriend have used condoms every time. We've had sex 5 times. I know the only thing that is 100 percent is abstinence. No the baby wont be a mistake not at all to me...a beautiful blessing. Yes, a blessing that could have waited. But, once again..i can't go back and change things. And I'm not really stressing and I have irregular periods anyways.
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