I'm 15 and I think that I could be pregnant. Me and my boyfriend used protection but when he came the condom fell off in me. It was INSIDE me. I'm worried that semen came out of the condom. I think it was my first day of ovulation. It has only been 4 days since that happened. I know my mom will help me ... I'm not so sure about my dad. If he kicks me out I know his mom will let me live with them. My boyfriend knows that I could be pregnant and he is working 2 jobs; well has been. I'm getting a job in January when i have my restricted license ... at least I'm going to try and get one. I'm not scared about being pregnant. Also, I'm not asking this question for negative input. I just want to know what are my chances that I'm pregnant?

NvRShoutSabrina

and yes I know he's going to stay here for me...he Isn't like all other guys....and He's been my best friend for forever. He

NvRShoutSabrina

(sorry,I don't know what i pressed) wouldn't leave me like that.

J_9

Unfortunately, that's what most unwed teen mothers think. He'll promise the moon until the going gets tough, then he will get going. Again, speaking from experience.

NvRShoutSabrina

ah, no! he Isn't going to leave. Our relationship is realllly a lot different than you would even begin to understand.

J_9

Sabrina....As a mother and a labor and delivery nurse, your relationship is not any different than I would begin to understand. Believe it or not, I've seen it all!!!

You have no idea how easy it is for the guy to just walk out of the picture when the going gets tough and the money is tight. What if he finds another gal that doesn't have a baby and has time to party and do teen things?

This is NOT a put down, but at your young age I think life is a lot different than you would begin to understand. You are only at your prime...you have not even begun to climb the hill that is life, while I am over that hill and looking back at some of the foolish things I have done that my children are now doing.

NvRShoutSabrina

Me and him have been through a lot together. If he wanted to leave whent he going got tough he would have left a long time ago. And he doesn't even like to party ... he likes music, working, and doing car stuff with his friends. I know this is random in here but what makes having sex so much worse and or different than doing drugs or drinking or smoking? And the whole life thing yeah, there is a lot of things in life i haven't gotten to experience yet ... but I'm going to eventually need to.

J_9

What's different between having sex and doing drugs...smoking or drinking? Well, sex doesn't ruin brain and/or lung cells the way that drugs, smoking or drinking does.

However, if you aren't ready for the consequences it creates an entirely different set of problems.

NvRShoutSabrina

I think doing all the other stuff is worse...I'm not like whoring around or anything...I'm with the same person I lost my virginity to. He was a virgin too ... so there is no STD's. Pregnancy is the biggest factor ... and unless I were to have a bad pregnancy .. I don't think it would kill me.. or the baby. I have some friends who are teen moms...only they got pregnant a LOT younger than me ... and they're doing it ... still going to school... and still having a teenage life. And I'm not saying just because they're doing it and are fine it doesn't mean I will be. I'm just saying it is possible.

J_9

You are very right that the other stuff is worse...but there are some very serious risks involved with teen pregancy. Your friends are lucky, but you may not be. Why risk that chance?

NvRShoutSabrina

I never intended getting pregnant at my age. I never even planned on having sex at my age ... I wanted to wait until the night of my wedding for as long as I can remember. It just happened... The thing is though I can't turn back time. I can't go back and stop me and him from having sex to prevent this situation. What I can do though is face this head on. If I'm pregnant I'm telling my mom the second I find out then I'm telling my dad (that's gunna be the worst) He is gunna tell his mom if I am. And if my dad kicks me out I'll be able to stay with him ... his mom already said if something goes on at my house I can always stay with them. Plus, she wouldn't let the mother of her grandchild be homeless. If I'm not pregnant I'm going to stress on my mom more to go get me checked for Endometriosis so I can get on birth control and I'm going to try to abstain from any kind of sex. But that's why I'm going to try harder to get on birthcontrol, just in case it happenes like before. If me and him do have sex again we are going to continue to use condoms and be a lot more careful about it.