I have always had a normal period. Dec my period was normal. Last month it only lasted 3 days compared to the 6 days it normally lasts.This month I'm spotting just like last month. I 've had home pregnancy and blood tests done but the results all come back negative. I have been pregnant before and I have the same syptoms as before. But I heard if you wanted to get pregnant you create syptoms. The doctors didnt know I was pregnant with my son until I was like 3 months. Someone tell me is it all in my head?

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I'm afraid no one can tell you that for sure. It could be that you just really want to get preggy,and are remembering the symptoms you had with your first pregnancy and just re-creating them now. However, you said that your pregnancy with your son wasnt even discovered until you were already 3 months, so it could very well be that you are pregnant, and your levels just arent high enough to show yet. It sounds like this is just one of those watch and wait situations. However, you can be prepared, just in case. Start taking prenatal vitamins, and living as tho you are pregnant. this way, if you are pregnant, you wont have an regrets about "doing things different if I had known" kinda thing. And if you arent preggy, still no harm done, you will have just been taking extra good care of yourself. better safe then sorry. Hope you find your answers soon. good luck, and best wishes. let us know when you find out.