afraid I cant get pregnant

lulabell · #1 Jul 18, 2004, 11:40 AM

I have been trying to get pregnant only 3 months and no luck yet. But for some reason I'm starting to get scared that I can't get pregnant. Is that crazy? How long did it take you to get pregnant with your first child?

rach0513 · Jul 30, 2004, 07:46 AM

I know how you feel but i wouldnt worry too much you have only been trying 3 months. my husband and i have have been trying for 2 years. i am deathly afraid that i cant get pregnant or it is my husband. but like i said u have only been trying for 3 months dont think about it have fun with it. thats what everyone keeps telling me dont think about it or worry about it it will happen when it happens. belive i am so sick :-X of hearing that but it is true what else can u do?

ameena · Oct 20, 2004, 12:23 PM

i already have a 2 year old son and me and my husband want to try for another baby. when we have sex we dont use condoms and weeks later my period comes? i want to have another baby so my son can have some company, i am going to see my doctor soon so i think he is going to refer me to a hospital so hopefully i will have some idea as to why im not getting pregnant. we have been trying for a good 5 months but still nothing can anyone give me some advice?

babygirl · Jan 28, 2005, 09:55 AM

ameena,
I know what you mean, by saying that you have been having sex, and not pregnant. I am in the same boat as you. My husband and I have been trying since Apirl 2004, and I am not pregnant yet. I have 2 miscarriages. My drs. are trying really hard to figure out why I am having miscarriages, and why I can't get pregnant. My dr. told me that when I start my period that is day 1. Around days 10, 12, 14, 16 take an ovalation test to see if you are ovaltion. That should help. After I do that I have to go and have some blood work done. My dr. has said something about having dye put into my tubs, to make sure my eggs are not getting stuck in there. May just want to talk to your dr. about something like that, or a mild form of fertinty drugs. That about all the information I have now. If you want to talk more about this you can e-mail me at [email address]

. I hope that i have been some help to you.

trying2conceive#3 · Mar 1, 2005, 09:29 PM

I feel the same way, I have two children aged 5 and 7 who I fell pregnant with the first month of trying and now we are trying for a third child. I came off the pill on January 1st and we have tried throughout both cycles and no luck

I even bought ovulation predictor kits and had sex on all the right days but still nothing..

It is soooo depressing and I am worried that maybe my husband is smoking too much and thats why I cant get pregnant

Or maybe its from being on the pill although i have had breaks during the last 5 years since my son was born.
I did not notice any egg-white fertile mucus during my cycles.. maybe thats another reason why i cant get pregnant.

Oh.. I hate this waiting game.

I have such sympathy for all of u lovely ladies who have been trying for years to get pregnant. 2 months and I'm already out of my mind!!!

staci1135 · Jun 3, 2005, 11:19 PM

If any of you are having trouble getting pregnant, my unprofessional advice would be to see your Dr. There are many simple things he/she can do to detect any fertility problems. I, of course, and speaking from experience. After 2 years of trying I finally got diagnosed with polycystic ovarian disease (PCOD aka PCOS) and scar tissue in my fallopian tubes. There are blood tests and a HSG test that your Dr. can perform. It may be well worth the trip to the Dr. Feel free to reply if you have any questions. I've been through so much with respect to fertility problems I feel like a pro!

Right now we are going thru in vitro so, please, keep your fingers crossed as I should be implanted toward the end of the month! I need all the luck and prayers I can get. Thanks!

trying2conceive#3 · Jun 4, 2005, 01:47 AM

Hi, I am now 9.5 weeks pregnant.

So i think sometimes its just a matter of being patient & not always something wrong with us

Good luck everyone else!

kaydee · Jul 10, 2005, 09:11 PM

hey!..
i've been with my b/f for almost two years and for 9 months we havn't been using protection at all, i'm only young i just turned 18 and i dont want to get preg yet but i'm just scard that i'll wont get pregnant at all. something else i'm worried about... every thing comes back out after we have sex, like all the and that, is that sorpose to do that?? some people get preg with the frist time having sex so why cant i

what r the reasons why you cant get pregnant???

trying2conceive#3 · Jul 10, 2005, 09:26 PM

Hi Kaydee,

You say that u don't want to get pregnant but are not using any protection and seem to be disappointed that you are not getting pregnant?! If you really don't want to get pregnant, use some method of contraception which your doctor can help u with and then worry about any fertility problems when the time comes that u do want to conceive. I am sure there is nothing wrong with you and it is normal for fluids to come out of you after intercourse. Afterall, its gravity

I think you need to decide whether you are trying to conceive or not!!

Take care

turtlegirl · Jul 11, 2005, 10:06 PM

TROOPER12,
Aren't you an 18-year-old boy who wrote in complaining that your girlfriend won't give you head, but she'll do anything else and if she loved you she'd do what you say? I'm not sure your proselytizing about marriage and sexuality is really warranted here.
(Ladies, check out his post in the relationships section.)



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