I haven't told anyone about this....if I had a baby now id would be so unhappy. I don't have the money or the time kto put into it.....same with my bf....we are not married yet, we are takin things one step at a time, if we had a baby it would screw up our plans. ya know? well if I turn out to be pregnant I'm considering an abortion....any words of advise???? should I juts have the abortion and not tell anyone, should I discuss it with him and just take the chance??

vyki

yes i agree that it being legal does not make it right but you not agreeing with it does not make it wrong.
are you so narrowminded that you cannot respect anybody elses opinion?

BIM

OK--First Off this gal ISN'T saying she is pregnant; she is saying that what if she got pregnant should she get an abortion and should she tell her boyfriend about it or just have it done.

I am Pro-Choice-I feel a woman should have a right to do with her body what she wishes. I feel it should be a mutual decision between the father & mother to have this done. I do not feel abortion should be a form of birth control--but I do feel that it should be available out there if a woman chooses to take this path.

'nough said.

LUNAGODDESS

There are two ways to live your life one is as through nothing is a miracle the other is as through every thing is a miracle... Albert Einstein

website to visit...http://www.bible.ca/s-Abortion.htm

dbek

I think you have to make a choice that you will be able to live with all your life. For me their was never a right time or had the money to do it. But you know I would never change having my children, making the decision to have them.

Mommy Wanna Be

Don't have a abortion alone, this is a time where you should get all the support you can. Your boyfriend would probably much rather go through it with you then have you be alone and scared. If you do decide to have a abortion, just make sure you use protection until you are both financially stable and mentally ready. Good luck on whatever decision you make

BabyAbagail06

Discuss it with him...... that child did not ask to be brought in to this world it's not the baby's fault if i was you and i was pregnant i would have that baby....... Think before you do this b/c if you get rid of the baby now will you be able to have anothe one a few years down the road!!!!!!!

corriehac

I do not believe in abortion myself, I am a mother of 7 children, and i look into their little eyes how could have never have saw how pretty they are. But yet it is your choice. If you are unable to care for a child maybe someone could be blessed by the best gift of all life. Or maybe a family member can help you until you are ready to care for the little one yourself. If you must have an abortion please be more careful next time for this will be the hardest choice you will have to make. I say let him know. if he loves you he will work with you , and make your choice alot easier. Good luck, Its your body, your mind , but its a child soul, that you created.

BabyAbagail06

That is true so please talk to your man and tell him what is on your mind other wise when yall do decide to have a child you might not be able to have one.... please talk to him now!!!! Good luck

worthbeads

If you want my opinion, abortion is wrong. If you aren't carful about sex and are willing to take that risk, you should have to deal with it. You should be held accountable for your own actions. But that's just my opinion mind you.

sarah louise

dont do it theres people in this world. wanting babies and if you are think about your self no one else you will regret it ok