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Old Nov 8, 2006, 11:50 AM
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abortion?

I haven't told anyone about this....if I had a baby now id would be so unhappy. I don't have the money or the time kto put into it.....same with my bf....we are not married yet, we are takin things one step at a time, if we had a baby it would screw up our plans. ya know? well if I turn out to be pregnant I'm considering an abortion....any words of advise???? should I juts have the abortion and not tell anyone, should I discuss it with him and just take the chance??

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Old Nov 16, 2006, 12:49 PM   #21  
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The planet can barely support the number of human beings on it as it is, so what is the point of having a child just so you won't be judged by other people?
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Old Nov 16, 2006, 01:07 PM   #22  
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The planet can barely support the number of human beings on it as it is, so what is the point of having a child just so you won't be judged by other people?

That is maybe where murderers, rapists and molesters come in... not the innocent!!!
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Old Nov 16, 2006, 01:20 PM   #23  
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Making plans on killing a child...is premeditated murder...short and simple...use birth control and understand this fact ...birth control is not 100 percent effective...have a baby when you are ready...better yet have sex ...when you are ready to have a baby...I am not going to be politically correct when it comes to abortion...this hurts me dearly to write...
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Old Nov 16, 2006, 01:46 PM   #24  
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Honey, you need to do what you feel is right for you. I am very pro-choice, even though I have 5 kids. If I were ever in a situation where I knew I could not afford another child or give 100% to another child, I would consider abortion. Only you know what is best for you and your situation. ALOT of woman go through this everyday, and there are many support groups out there to help you through it, if that is what you decide. Good luck to you Hun!!!!!

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Old Nov 16, 2006, 01:49 PM   #25  
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why is killing sperm and eggs (birth control) any different to abortion? To me the distinction between a potential life and life is 4 to 6 months after conception. To some people it's birth to some it's conception and to others (eg Catholics) it's as soon as sperm leaves the body.
Most people here do not consider birth control murder and would be critised for making someone feel guilty about using it. I'm not saying abortion should be used as birth control but accidents happen and it's better not to have a child you can't give 100% to.
We all need to respect that everyone has their own opinion on what constitutes life.
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Abortion is murder.
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Abortion is murder.

Murder is the illegal killing of another human being so i'll think you'll find you are incorrect in your definition.
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A baby is a human being. When you can see eyes, nose and a whole body and a heart beat even at 5 weeks. Yes it is human. My defination is quite right.

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My point is it's not illegal therefore not murder.
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Its still illegal in some places. Just because it is not illegal in others does not make it right.
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