Went for the first official prenatal visit, this went okay, till they sent me for the ultrasound, this sadly showed the fetus had not grown past the 6 week stage and no heart beat was detected

. Needless to say I was scheduled for a D&C, it was my choice to either wait & see if it happened naturally or to get the pills that speeded up the process, or the D&C. I chose the D&C as they maybe able to tell us what happened, and I was experiencing major headaches and extreme fatagigue.
The bottom line ladies is I went to a walkin clinic last Wed, and told them I thought something was wrong & I asked them to take blood, they told me that they don't do that and that I should just wait to see my family doctor who is also an OB. They gave me a swab stick and made me go do my own vag. swab? This pissed me off looking back, first I am not a Doctor person, and second, I hate pitty and feel shameful that I had the need to feel like going to the walkin clinic in the first place. I never cry wolf! ever.
My advise to you is, take notes everyday on how you feel and if anything is unusual, including your dreams record it. I did keep this diary and it helped when, I got to the
real Doctor. The strange thing was on April 6 I had a dream I fell off a swinging elevator in Vancouver, BC, at my husbands employers. There is a swinging art thing there, but it is not an elevator what so ever, this fall caused me to jump out of bed at around 1am, I went to the washroom, and discovered more brown blood than I had sceen the whole 4 weeks I was bleeding, and a bit of tissue, this was around the 6th week, when the fetus must have died.
Bottom line listen to your body, it will tell you what it needs, and be persistant at the doctor, if they are not giving you the treatment you feel you need, seek an alternative, the hospital, or something.
Best wishes to everyone else who may be experiencing bleeding in the first trimester. I hope and wish this will not happen to you, but also just know if it does, it was for the best. WE all want a healthy baby!
