6 weeks pregnancy

chas21 · Jul 31, 2007, 12:09 PM

i am 6 weeks pregnant and i started having slight bleeding and i am scared because i had a misscarriage in nov of 2006 and me and my bf have been trying to get pregnant and when we found out we were already pregnant and i am scared to tell him cause he will freak out what should i do? someone please help

rankrank55 · Aug 1, 2007, 07:58 AM

Call your doctor ASAP. Good luck!

chas21 · Aug 1, 2007, 08:43 AM

well now theres no blood and now my bf called his mom and she is telling me i am having a miscarrage and now my bf is screaming at me and telling me i am stupid because i dont feel like theres anything wrong and with my miscarrage before i felt like something was wrong and they are saying that i wouldnt bleed if i had a miscarrge this early. would i feel something wrong?

rankrank55 · Aug 1, 2007, 08:46 AM

Whoooaaa, tell them to slow down! You haven't even seen a doctor yet. I honestly don't think you are having a miscarriage but I do think you should have you OB take a look at it. You boyfriend yelling and screaming at you is only causing more stress to you and your unborn child. He needs to stop! Call your doctor and set up an appointment or go to the ER if you need to! Good luck!

nauticalstar420 · Aug 1, 2007, 08:46 AM

First of all, your boyfriend needs to calm down. Added stress does not help at all.

How long has the bleeding been stopped for? Did you cramp? Do you cramp now? Did the blood have any clotting?

You have experienced a miscarriage, and so has rank. You know what it is like, and if you feel you are okay, then you probably are. But as rank said, it would be good for you to see your doctor, or at least call him, just in case!

alkalineangel · Aug 1, 2007, 08:50 AM

just call the doc and they will most likely go ahead and bring ou in for an ultrasound to be sure...I, personally, would rather be safe than sorry.

rankrank55 · Aug 1, 2007, 08:50 AM

Exactly! Please just see your doctor or give him a quick ring! He/she will determine if you need to come in. When I m/c I have very severe cramping that awoke me in the middle of the night, I also bleed very heavily and passed a lot of clots! I was soaking up pads every 20 minutes!

chas21 · Aug 1, 2007, 10:10 AM

it was brownishh when i used the bathroom this morning and when we went and ate breakfest about 2 hours ago and i just used the bathroom and there was no blood. my bf is calm now and he called his aunt and she is an obgy and she said that she doesnt believe it a mc cause we had sex 2 days ago and that when i started spotting was the next morning. i dont have any cramps and i dont feel anything wrong. would i feel anything wrong we are on the road for his job and we have been under stress with worrying about money cause he wasnt working for a week so we got behind on bills and then we have to find a place to live so i can have a room for my little peanut. but his aunt said that if i feel something wrong or it becomes heavy or really bright red go to the doc but other wise dont have sex for 4-6 weeks and see the doc when i go home tomorrow or fri for my ultra sound to see if everything is ok. but i dont want to be scared i want my little baby and i dont want the man upstairs to take my peanut. i just lay in the the hotel room bed and watch my soaps and drink water. thanks everyone for ur support u are so much help and stress reliver

nauticalstar420 · Aug 1, 2007, 10:13 AM

You're very welcome hun. And take your boyfriend's aunts advice. She knows what she is talking about. Just take it easy for a while. It doesnt sound to me like you are having a miscarriage either, but you should still take it easy. Pregnancy is exhausting, and worrysome!

If anything changes, contact your OB or go to the ER

chas21 · Aug 1, 2007, 10:32 AM

we thanks so much i didnt think it was one but we are in detriot and we go back to ky toorrow but its a 9 hour drive so i wont get back till late on thurs so i will prob have to wait till fri but i am trying not worry so i dont make it worse. dont worry i will keep u updated and hopefully i will know something fri. i hope

ajhudgins · Aug 1, 2007, 01:16 PM

Chas I have had a miscarriage as well and it does NOT sound like you are having one to me!!! The aunt's advise was wonderful and you resting is a great idea because woman who bleed and are NOT having a miscarriage are most often put on semi or full bed rest so take it easy until you get to the doctor and don't worry!!! When you have a miscarriage it is VERY painful and TONS of blood I couldn't even use a pad I was rolling up towels and soaking them within one hour so I really think you are going to be fine!!!! Let us know for sure!!!



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