yeah, try another object which is also attracted to the magnet. I believe that if you put an iron sheet between the magnet and the spoon the iron sheet will conduct the magnetic lines of force through itself. The sheet would probably need to be about 2x the length of the spoon and/or magnet though, you'll probably get some 'leakage' on the edges of the sheet.
But this is just my intuitive response, don't have any math to back it up this early in the morning
