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Old Apr 14, 2008, 06:31 PM
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Why do I get sad whenever anything ends?

Whenever something ends I get all super depressed and stuff. Things like the end of books, movies, tv-shows, social gatherings, weekends, or pretty much anything be it happy or sad get me really really upset. Why does this happen!? For example like 2 years back when I finished Final Fantasy X the ending of the game was so sad and I felt so upset that I finished it and it was over, I became really depressed...I couldn't concentrate on anything and I kept like thinking about that game and looking up all sorts of things about it. Also, like a few months ago when i finished my favorite anime Death Note, I also felt like super depressed. The end of it just made me so upset knowing that "thats it, thats final, this is how it ENDS." These things just piss me off so much and get me really sad. In fact, I think I'm gonna kill myself when the Simpsons end! What do I do?? And please just don't tell me to "move on" because I linger on these things subconsciously and they NEVER go away! I'm still ing upset about Final Fantasy and Death Note after 2 ing years and 3 ing months!!!!

P.S. - Now I'm all sad because its the "end: of my post.....I have a serious problem, please help!

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Old Apr 14, 2008, 06:40 PM   #2  
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Okay the Simpsons end you start watching Family Guy
You finish Final Fantasy X you go to the Game Exchange store and exchange it for Grand Theft Auto IV on the 29th.
Let me know when you finish this anime up and I will find you more
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Maybe find some things that do not have an ending.

You could also try some obsessive/compulsive therapy that may help.
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Old Jul 13, 2008, 02:38 PM   #3  
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It's natural..to a certain degree.Everyone is different.

Instead of focusing on the endings focus on the beginnings of other things.

Things can't last forever and maybe you feel insecure about that.
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Old Jul 18, 2008, 07:26 AM   #4  
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It seems in your life you always have to have something to look foreward too, wether it be game ,book....what ever, it's like you become part of your book or game or t.v series, actually living the part, belonging to the whole senario of what ever your following at the time.

Believe it or not lots of people are like that, giving them some sense of belonging.

Liken it to a night out.....you look foreward to it for ages, the build up getting all dressed up etc... then the nights a flop, what a let down, so you wait for the next invite which replaces the let down, you build yourself up again...

The same with books, games or tv shows, 1 comes to an end, your fed up so you seek out another to replace it, relieving that let down feeling.

It may be a good idea to join some sort of group, maybe film club, book club or even computor game club e.g...World of War craft.....where it's on going and you'll make lots of friends, which will dismiss that sad let down feeling........
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the end of anything has to be the begining of something else. think of how these different things have changed you made you a different person.

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Clough agrees: Now, I like your statement, "the end of anything has to be the beginning of something else." We are ever evolving as humans. Endings can be the things that help us to move forward into the future with a positive outlook toward things in the future.
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I like your signature, Abby! I wish that my positive rating would have gotten you out of the "red" zone concerning ratings!
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Every ending is just a new beginnging, remember that and it might help!
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Crap, I didn't see that someone had already said that...
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Whenever something ends I get all super depressed and stuff. Things like the end of books, movies, tv-shows, social gatherings, weekends, or pretty much anything be it happy or sad get me really really upset. Why does this happen!? For example like 2 years back when I finished Final Fantasy X the ending of the game was so sad and I felt so upset that I finished it and it was over, I became really depressed...I couldn't concentrate on anything and I kept like thinking about that game and looking up all sorts of things about it. Also, like a few months ago when i finished my favorite anime Death Note, I also felt like super depressed. The end of it just made me so upset knowing that "thats it, thats final, this is how it ENDS." These things just piss me off so much and get me really sad. In fact, I think I'm gonna kill myself when the Simpsons end! What do I do?? And please just don't tell me to "move on" because I linger on these things subconsciously and they NEVER go away! I'm still ing upset about Final Fantasy and Death Note after 2 ing years and 3 ing months!!!!

P.S. - Now I'm all sad because its the "end: of my post.....I have a serious problem, please help!
But if something is not an end; believe me you will be bored with it. Even life it self has an end. the creator has created things that way..with an end. And had there been no end to yoru book; you wouldn't have tasted the beauty of the next one you read...had there been no end to your childhood; you would have never been matured enough to know what you know today...believe me it's all for the best. But you may need to take time and help to grasp this idea...good luck!
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Not becuse what you think is true. Life is an adventure or a Nigthmare. Chose. be happy or cry.
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