What are your insecurities when you are around other people?

Stringer · Jun 20, 2009, 09:39 PM

I have to say that I have a few, however mostly I feel that I am out of shape and I need to lose a few pounds, it makes me feel uncomfortable. In the past this was very important to me, worked out, watched what I ate for the most part. Lately I haven't had time to work out and I have been 'binging' some. So, maybe it is stress, laziness, not enough time...whatever, but that is one of mine...I am in front of people a lot; speaking, selling, dealing with customers.....and I just feel like this is distracting....

What are yours, doesn't have to be about weight....

Justwantfair · Jun 22, 2009, 09:55 AM

I can sympathize with your list.

I am a C cup, but I didn't develop until I was almost a junior in high school. Teenagers are cruel... my nickname in high school was 'Big Mama Melons' because my friends thought that was funny.

ZoeMarie · Jun 22, 2009, 10:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Stringer

I have to say that I have a few, however mostly I feel that I am out of shape and I need to lose a few pounds, it makes me feel uncomfortable.

You and me both. I've been walking every day, even if it's only 15 min, but it's hard to eat better because my husband is so dang picky and I hate to come up with 2 different things to make if he doesn't want what I want.

Stringer · Jun 22, 2009, 10:15 AM

People can be cruel, I think that it has something to do with their very own insecurities...in their minds; attack so that they are not attacked...craziness...Also, some that are narcissistic feel that it makes them look good if they put someone else down. and with this type of person...it can ONLY be about them. (NO, I am not talking about anyone in particular....)

So, how are we to deal with these things?

ZoeMarie · Jun 22, 2009, 10:20 AM

violence. LOL

88sunflower · Jun 22, 2009, 10:24 AM

Stringer you can do it! Just get yourself back in a routine and work out and change your eating habits. Its a lifestyle change for sure.

Stringer · Jun 22, 2009, 10:25 AM

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Originally Posted by ZoeMarie

violence. LOL

Ha haaaaa...is that the 'gentler' type of violence?

88sunflower · Jun 22, 2009, 10:26 AM

I so agree that people attack so they arent attacked. I have learned those are the most weak really.

ZoeMarie · Jun 22, 2009, 10:28 AM

LOL. yeah that just sounded good at the time. I always joke that violence is the answer, although it solves nothing.

Stringer · Jun 22, 2009, 10:39 AM

Another insecurity...kind of....I totally melt when I have to take a shot...(needle that is)...

I realize that it doesn't hurt (much) but I wish that I handled this better....At least I haven't fainted like I saw so many do in the Air Force....Hmmmm? Maybe this is a phobia? Not sure...

Justwantfair · Jun 22, 2009, 10:48 AM

Yeah, my phobia is some kind of megalophopia which effects me with planes and roller coasters and sadly even walking the streets of Chicago.

Phobias are a whole different story because I am always ashamed that I can't get it under control and I always feel that everyone is staring at the 'idiot in a panic attack'.