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Curses--anyone experience anything like this?

Asked Aug 2, 2010, 03:44 PM — 21 Answers
For 13 years..I've only been through non-stop hell/bad luck..things I can't describe...everyday is like 'horror'...this isn't one or two things..this is like everything going wrong all the time...nothing works out---bad things happen to you-- people many have gone out of their way to destroy your life..do unspeakable things to you... Make suer they take away your 'power/control' major theme going on...anything you join you get kicked out of/banned....people outcast you, run away from you... Treat yuo like dirt....people feel it's their right to treat you like dirt....and if you object to the abuse, tehy abuse you more...this happens on a whole scale---majority such as 96%....the intricate things that happen to you are so complex and interwoven and it seems to delve into this labyrinth of only more crap....like an eternal black hole of hell with no resolution...if you try to resolve the situations---its only more hell for you and more bad happening to you....its like stirring up the 'situation'....everything goes wrong--anything you try to do 10 things happen to stop you from doing it....people treat you badly and make fun of you....you go through so much trauma your body/soul can't deal with it..anymore....so its manifesting into possible cancer...you have no frineds--though yuo are smart, funny, cool, attractive...all people do is run away from you, act crazy do crazy things...I've had people throw things at me, food receipts--in various situations....people look at you, freak out...act crazy....people's behavior/reactions to you is so abnormal and insane you can't even understand...why...or how but they react in the same way.....you can't get a boyfriend....no one will date or be with you despite the fact that you are very attractive....all people do is insult you put you down try to use you and bail...or lie/manipulate....your life is destroyed over n over again...and you go through non-stop hell suffering pain torture...people have done tonsof black magic on you..even voodoo and you have suffered badly.....excruciating pain...in every aspect....people have come into your life to ptu you through extreme suffering...beyond your means...not stopped and before they leave torture you to the worst extremes then blame it all on you....people project all their problems/issues onto you....then say "that's what you are" then blame it on you...you're like a mirror for everyone else....any human you interact with puts you down in some form, insults/abuses you and this doesn't stop.... People literally persceute you-- and most of the time its to get 'attention' and if they get it from you....they laugh and freak out....people think abusing you is 'ok'....and fun...if you try to get help frmo others during severe crisis...all they do is put you down....insult you...minizmie your severe situation.... No one will even be around you and you are alone 24/7....you have to trick people into being around you as they act scared of you-- you are a normal nice cute girl...but all people do is find some fault with you and insult you....find a reasno to make you feel bad about yourself....there is so much more....its worse than a curse...and the more you try to pray to God to get help, the worse it gets...there is no ending to it....and more people coming along to abuse/torment you then leave...while they live normal lives and you just 'suffer'....in loneliness isolation and abuse....you always meet the 'wrong people' 24/7...nothing positive happens to you and people only throw extreme negativity hatred anger bitterness your way then project it onto you and tell you you are what they aer...all people do is see yuo, make some bizarre false statement about you--when its about them...insult you..and you have to say --no that's not true...that's not me that's you...its like a bad nightmare...your life is like a nightmare....and anyone you encoutner is angry mean bitter or yells at you..for the most part...crazy bizarre intricate extreme things happen to you--to where you can write paragraphs upon paragraphs of 50 things that happened in one day...that are so intense and extreme...and you have to keep going through that 'hellish' scenario over and over again like true 'hell' but can't stop it...and it keeps coming at you from all directions....you have 100's of terrible bizarre stories...of what you've had to suffer through with no help or healing...only more abuse from cruel people...you have been through so much trauma non-stop...with nothing normal...your soul is dead..and you keep going through more and it keeps bouncing back but then you go into severe crisis and no one helps you-- all you get is more negativity cruelty and abuse from people while trying ot get help.....your family has dsetroyed your life-- some people in it are control freaks and won't stop...you have no one to turn to....to get out of it you have to go intricately through the legal system and hire lawyers and its so complicated you can't even go there...and the harder you try to get help---the more you can't get it and more bad things keep happening to you non-stop...the more you try to solve something..the harder it gets and goes into this black hole of nothingness and nothing ever gets resolved...just gets worse and worse...and you have to give up trying....people go out of their way to outcast you--people have strong reactions to you and do anythign to treat you really badly or abuse/mistreat you...you can't make any friends because people refuse to accept or like you, despite the fact that you are attractive nice sweet fun friendly....some people are obsessed with destroying you...and many just can't be around you...and reject you right away or are really rude to you and treat you lesser than them...some of it can be jealously, but not to this extent...what I've experienced is extreme...and non-stop 24/7....if you go to people for help they try to put you down too, mess with your head, make you feel bad about yuorself, and abuse you more or even do malicious things to you-- not everyone but most...if you try to tell people they can't treat you this way, they do it harder, and fight you more...showing you that they dominate you and you have no power---this has happened to me over n over again non-stop...along with so many other things..I can't even get into... Please don't say 'curses don't exist, its in your head, its something you're doing etc"..I'm asking people...who are maybe healers who know about this....how can a curse be this severe.....and how can a person get rid of it or stop it.... This is something so extreme ic ant even begin to describe and yet there seems to be no way to get rid of it...the more you try the worse it gets....and it is not 'life' it is only horror....

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Aug 2, 2010, 03:52 PM
To add to this too--there is no fun, no normal life..you can't go places have fun hang out with people-- they all react badly negatively to you and treat you badly...ignore or insult you...everyone does...you can't socially interact with people--they find some fault with you...put you down and treat you like dirt...you can't make friends....you can't just hang out and have a fun relaxing time...everyone around you abuses or puts you down in some form or makes you feel like you did something wrong just for existing....you are eternally alone dealing with various people abusing you with no one to turn to-- and its like a bad movie where everyone you turn to for help, acts the exact asme way--there are patterns/parallels...when one pattern occurs it keeps repeating and there is almost no way of stopping it....especially if its negative....then it just escalates into more abuse/negativity...every situation you go into turns into a traumatic event because of something bizarre ro a series of events that you weren't expecting yet keep occurring in different forms....there aer 'major' people in your life who have literally gone out of their way to destroy you control you and who don't stop and who have succeeded....'evil' seems to win all the time and you lose....you're stuck in a spiritual warfare too....and its really messed up.... Its worse than a curse and it never ends.. It just gets worse...and worse...then less worse...then stays at this one level of intense suffering....with tons of bad things then just keeps getting worse...or staying at that terrible level....what you think/project either manifests or comes back at you....if you wish for something it might come to you in some warped form....you're constantly being 'punished/abusde' despite the fact that uve been a good person your whole life .... Any metaphysical person know how to get rid of something like this...a curse, some spiritual awakening vortex, a spiritual war going on...so many things all at once...
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Aug 2, 2010, 06:00 PM
You said that this started 13 years ago. At that time was there a major change or "event" that took place that may be where the origin of this is likely to be found?

Maybe a break up , a death of someone significant ?

Were you put at odds with anyone who may carry a grudge or harbor bad feelings?

A curse is a mental implant that comes from somewhere outside you. But once you feel it and "accept" it , as you would have to do for it to work, the damage comes from within.

The "curse" will begin to distort your perception and normal things will start to appear different, misshapen , distorted.
And if unchecked the effects will snowball and grow into a series of disasters as you seem to be experiencing.

It can be stopped.
But first you must find the start, and origin.
That is why I asked you those questions.

Let's start there and find what we need to , then we can move on to start reversing the effects and get your life onto a better path.

It may require other people be involved, and you may be required to do things you may not like or understand.

It will not be easy or fast, but it can be stopped.

I will be waiting to hear from you. I wish you well
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Aug 2, 2010, 11:26 PM
Hey martinizing2--thanks so much for your help/input....do you have an email so we can talk abotu this, or should I send you mine somehow? I can answer some of these questions.... Or I can email you personally and give you my input on what you said...
What you said sounds really interesting...of course I have no clue how to reverse anything but you sound like you do...and other things you stated are true as well....ie it being a mental implant that seems to grow.... I'll check your profile to see if I can send you a message....and if not then respond here...
Thanks


Is it possible for me to leave my email address here..so you can email me ?
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Aug 2, 2010, 11:35 PM
We keep the responses in the forums so others with similar problems can refer to them.
Also we get input from other members that can be quite valuable.

If any information may compromise your privacy or the like we can use the P M on this site.

Looking forward to hearing from you.
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Aug 3, 2010, 12:05 AM
Oh ok...how do you use the pm?
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Aug 3, 2010, 12:23 AM
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Originally Posted by alisen998 View Post
oh ok...how do you use the pm?
What is it you need to send privately ? That is all the pm is for.

If it is part of the question you have we deal with those here.

No one knows your identity unless you used the same username in another forum .
In which case pm is in order. And I can offer suggestions on how to fix this.

To use it. Go to your profile page.
On the left side are the functions and options
Find "messages"
Then you'll see the send new, that is the one. Put in the username you want it to go to.
Fill in what you want to send.

Click on submit message.
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Aug 3, 2010, 12:48 AM
Hi, alisen998!

Please also realize that if things continue outside of the thread, that it's really not fair to others who have insight to offer on the thread because of not knowing what information has been exchanged outside of the thread.

In essence, taking things off of a thread helps to contribute in a negative way to the validity and integrity of a thread.

Thanks!
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Aug 3, 2010, 02:55 AM
Whether you view this as a curse, a run of bad luck, or just being surrounded by the wrong people, the way to protect yourself is to have healthy boundaries.

Here's something to read to start with:

Building Healthy Boundaries | LIVESTRONG.COM

There's lots more articles and books out there that you can read.
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Aug 3, 2010, 04:38 AM
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Originally Posted by QLP View Post
Whether you view this as a curse, a run of bad luck, or just being surrounded by the wrong people, the way to protect yourself is to have healthy boundaries.

Here's something to read to start with:

Building Healthy Boundaries | LIVESTRONG.COM

There's lots more articles and books out there that you can read.
These are excellent , I was going to be going that direction shortly. I believe we need to define some terms to start.
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