kc.....hi

I have four kids, I have been where you are, I understand the agony of having to take something away from your baby. I know it is annoying with the crying and pleading. I promise you one thing, if you stick with it for at least three or four days straight, you will notice it all getting easier. The main problem here is you said you have tried multiple times......you need to DO IT once and that is it. At 12 months it is safe to get her off the bottle. She will need a routine of things before bedtime, a nice snack, a bath time, a story, or what ever you want it to be. Make sure her tummy is full and she is at ease, doing these things tend to help. I helped my son gather his bottles, all of them and we put them into the garbage together, then we took the garbage bag tied it up tight and put the garbage in the big can outside, never to come back inside. I really wish you all the patience in the world, that is what it takes.....

good luck!