Using this forum *READ FIRST*

This forum is for question about your relationship with your children. Or about issues relating to rearing the kids. If you have legal questions about custody, visitation, child support, name changes etc. Please use the Family Law forum instead. http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/family-law/

I think you have to examine 'the dream' and ask yourself why it is that you are clinging to it so strongly. It may not all be about *her*, the real person, if you get my drift. What is it about her that caused you to fall in love with her? Did she treat you well from the start? Or did she blow hot...