| Son caught looking up porn
I have a 13 year old boy and a 4 you old daughter. My son, like most boys, is in and out of trouble all the time, so for a while he has had limited time on the computer and tv. Well yesterday, I come out of my room to find my son looking up porn on the computer. This is not the first time I have caught him, in fact this time I would say its a lot of mild T&A. In the past I have found the realy bad free websites, my son knows I can look up and see exactly what and when he is looking this up, so this time all of it was from u-tube, something I allow him to look at, not knowing pics and videos are on it like that.
I understand he is a 13 year old boy, and I understand this is completly natural. My big concern is my daughter is running around him as he's looking this up and some of the pics and videos are of little girls, little, as in his age or so. I do not know what to do. He is just a 13 year old boy. My husband says when he was little his dad gave him his first porn and said, if you tell you mother I will only deny it. My husband has always been so amazed on that talk with his dad and now understands why he did. He even asked me if I thought he should do the same. I of corse said no, I can't condone it and if I find some in his room, I will have to throw it away. My husband understand that. But we are at the point, what should we do. I do not want my daughter seeing that stuff and if my son is going to see or watch porn....I cannot beleive I am to this point.....I do not want him lookin at little girls, I do not want any sort of kiddie porn in any which way in my home.
Yes I have talked to him and he knows why I do not approve. But he is a little boy. Any suggestions?
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