| Not all men are seeking to get out of their responsibility to support their children, they simply want to be treated fairly by family court systems and the custodial parents. Most men that do pay are still denied visitation, deal with parental alienation, treated very unfairly when in family court system and always deemed "deadbeat dads" because family court now does wage assignment instead of letting fathers simply make weekly,bi-weekly or monthly pmts. When this happens their employer knows all their business as well as anyone else in the company interested in the gossip about what happened to so and so today and hinders non custodial parents in future promotion that will also benefit the child. The family court labels non custodial parents before their court appearence and that label sticks like glue.
When my husbands ex(works as social worker at DCS) sued him was only after we were married, until that time he paid weekly by check or cash to her always on time, since our marriage she has had him in court 4 to 5 times a year, because of her position with Department of Human Services she knows all Family Court judges and lawyers and works with them daily, he never wins and has been on wage assignment since the first court date(2001) we were married in 2000. She has our income tax offset every year with false accussations of past due medical bills, last time state held refund for 18months until she accumalated enough med bills to keep the money. Now the last court date(mar 2008) judge ordered him to continue to pay until 2010 when child will be 20yrs old and only just graduating from high school. Mother held her behind 2 years in kindergarten (that was during their divorce) at the time she was dating the current Child Support Attorney for this state. I'm sure he has advised her along the way on how to ruin us financially. It has worked, He pays almost $500.00 mo for 1 child who works and will not even call him or speak to him any longer. This childwanted to live with us until she was older and learned what money could do for her. Now Child Support Attorney wines and dines them both in style on my husbands money and we are struggling just to survive.
NOT ALL MEN SEEKING TO LOWER CHILD SUPPORT ARE DEADBEATS. SOME WOMEN ARE GREEDY AND WANT WHAT EVER THEY CAN GET THEIR HANDS ON AT ANY COST EVEN THE COST OF A DAUGHTER AND FATHERS LOVE MEANS NOTHING TO THESE GREEDY WOMEN. I AM A WOMAN AND I RAISED 2 SONS WITHOUT CHILD SUPPORT, WHEN I FINALLY GOT IT, I RECEIVED $35.00 PER WEEK BUT I DID NOT TRY TO CAUSE DISCORD BETWEEN MY CHILDREN AND THEIR FATHER, I DID NOT TRY TO RUIN HIM FINANCIALLY EVEN THOUGH HE CHEATED ON ME, BEAT ME AND NEGLECTED OUR SONS. EVERYONE ANSWERS FOR THEIR SINS AND GREED IS A BAD ONE. | 
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