how should i tell my mom?

babii_love · #1 Mar 25, 2008, 09:42 AM

If i was to be pregnant how should i go about telling my mom??
my mom have anger problems and i dnt want her to snap but i want to be straight up wit her but i dont know how to say it. I'm thinking i should just go straight to it and be like "mom i'm pregnant" then again i don't know.... what should i do??

babii_love · Mar 26, 2008, 03:19 PM

i'm 16

babii_love · Mar 26, 2008, 07:08 PM

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Originally Posted by babii_love

If i was to be pregnant how should i go about telling my mom??
my mom have anger problems and i dnt want her to snap but i want to be straight up wit her but i dont know how to say it. I'm thinking i should just go straight to it and be like "mom i'm pregnant" then again i don't know.... what should i do??

i'm going to go and fined out soon if i am
and thats what i'm just going to do might as well get it over with

Altenweg · Mar 26, 2008, 07:19 PM

I agree with everyone else. If you are pregnant and planning on going through with the pregnancy, then she'll notice sooner or later anyway. Just sit down with her, maybe bring your boyfriend along for emotional support (after all, he's responsible too) and then tell her. She may surprise you.

Now, if you aren't pregnant, then please use birth control. If you are in a steady relationship then go on the pill, use a condom, heck use two. Unprotected sex causes pregnancy, which you may soon learn first hand.

Good luck to you, I hope everything works out.

Sarah48375 · Mar 26, 2008, 08:17 PM

I became pregnant when I was 18. I was still living at home, and I was very scared to tell my father. I know this was bad, but I told him in a restaurant. He couldn't yell at me because we were in public. I started crying and asked him what the worst thing that could possibly happen to me was, and he said, "you could be pregnant." I said I was and he started to cry and said that he thought he raised me better than that. No guy has ever broken my heart like when my dad said that. However, my dad loves my daughter and wouldn't change me having her for anything.

Here is another plan.....

It's so close to mothers day....You could give her a card that says grandma in it....... that is probably not such a good idea either.

To be honest with you though it's probably just be to sit her down and deal with what she says. I know it's the hardest thing you'll ever had to do, but it must be done. Even if you chose to not have the baby or give the baby up for adoption, you'll need her support.

babii_love · Mar 27, 2008, 12:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by babii_love

If i was to be pregnant how should i go about telling my mom??
my mom have anger problems and i dnt want her to snap but i want to be straight up wit her but i dont know how to say it. I'm thinking i should just go straight to it and be like "mom i'm pregnant" then again i don't know.... what should i do??

Them are good ideas that one about the card is funny. I will do just that and of course i'm going through with the pregnancy because the baby is innocent and havent done anything wrong. Me and him did this so we got to go through with it thanks

Sarah48375 · Mar 27, 2008, 12:29 PM

It's great that you're willing to take responsiblity for your actions.



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