What happens if your son hates their father? could you help me figure this out?

COOKIE MONSTER

we need more info than that hun

do you no why?
did he do or say something wrong?
how old is he?[your son]
when did everything start going bad?

red grasshopper12

my friend gave me this question. she said her husband does all he can to satisfy him (talking about the son) but he is never satisfied.

red grasshopper12

he is 7 yrs. old.

COOKIE MONSTER

we cant tell you whats wrong or how to figure this out without the facts


when did this start?
what happend before it started was their any big disruption moving house,classes,school ect

red grasshopper12

maybe could they be too controlling.

COOKIE MONSTER

if all the anger is going towards the father then it is something the father has said or done to make him this way,they need to ask him why hes being like this he is old enough to speak his mind and to say whats bothering him

it could be something so silly like he told him not to jump on the sofa,kids dont forget anything,it could be because daddy shouted at mommy it could be alot of things

when i was about 6/7 i kicked the dog not perposely but i did mygrandad smacked myass after that i didnt call him grandad i called him 'him' ive never forgotten it,i used to avoid him,wouldnt speak to him,if mygrandma left the room so did i,if grandma went out i did aswel,i call him grandad now and we speak abit not much.but thats what kids are like they can hold grudges even so young

red grasshopper12

he hates being what he can do and not do.

COOKIE MONSTER

all kids are like that my 2year old hates me telling him what he can and cant do but thats just life we only tell then not to do things because we care and it would be agood idea for them to tell him this
maybe if he spent aday everyweek if possible with his dad just them 2 and his dad talks with him about things like why he tells him off ect it mite help

everytime i tell myson not to do something i make apoint of telling him why he cant doit,like if hes going to hurt himself or his brother or if it will hurt some ones feelings.
myson has just started spitting i have no idea were he got it from but if theirs one thing i hate its bloody spitting [hes probably got if from myfriends kids they are older] but when i told him off for doing it i told him its adirty thing to do and he should never spit in toys or on people because its avery bad thing to do,he also got stood in the corner he hasnt done it since thank god

but all kids hate being told what they can and cant do especially when they are 7

red grasshopper12

i know this not about this but i read if child doesn't like you, you have no business of having kids.