what can i do to get my 14 year old daughter out of my house if she refuses to listen to me and i feel as tho i will cause her bodily harm

CaptainForest

Try and work it out. Want to know how to destroy your relationship with your daughter? Kick her out at 14.

That being said…
Call your local Department of Child and Family Services (or some other equivalent name to that). Give your child up for adoption. She will be placed in foster care. She might then get adopted (but at 14, I seriously doubt it).

If you stick her in foster care, she might turn to drugs or booze or something else since the supervision would probably be a lot less then you would administer at home.

Another suggestion. Send her to boot camp. I’m sure they must have one for girls.

Jesushelper76

You know what YOU ARE SICK. You posted about your daughter being pregnant and now you are talking about forcing her out or you are going to hurt her. YOU ARE SICK. You know what somebody needs to call the cops on you and knock some sense in you. You know what people like you piss me off. Why are you here? Your daughter needs parents and needs parents who are supportive no matter what she does. If you think you are going to lay your stupid hands on your daughter you need to turn yourself in. I may be talking strong but you need to get a grip. Think about what is important. Joe

You can not force your daughter to give up her own baby, you can not force her to abort a baby. She wants to keep her baby and you need to be a real parent so get off your high horse and become a real parent without forcing anything on your daughter.

CaptainForest

Jesushelper76 disagrees: You can not send somebody to boot camp that is pregnant.

What???????

The poster never said her child was pregnant. Just that it is a 14 year old.

I think you are mixing up the posts. The pregnant post is a different post.

lilfyre

this was misleading and this makes me mad I removed my answer to the post. here in this post you are no longer misleadparents right to force minor to give baby for adoption You know that there is always two sides to a story,each person having a side. I have never seen two stories from one person

CaptainForest

Oh, my bad.

I didn't realize that this poster was the same as the pregnant poster.

In which case, I wish to re-post my answer and shame on the poster paynter167 for not mentioning here that her child is pregnant.

I take back everything AND I say, shame on you paynter167. You want to cause your daughter bodily harm b/c she refusses to give up her child??????

God, that is sad. I think in your daughter's best interest, she should leave so as to not be exposed to you anymore.

Jesushelper76

Now you understand why I reacted the way I did.

lilfyre

I do I do I do, can not rate you I am out a normal for me, well put

talaniman

I wondered how you could upset a cool level headed person like Jesushelper until I went back and checked your other thread about your daughter 14 being pregnant.The way you wrote this post you left out just enough facts to keep people from seeing you for the uncaring person that you are,and sir that is intentionally misleading and leaves the true matters of your problem out. This makes you a liar,a fraud,and a lousy parent. What kind of person would want to physicaly abuse a child ,a pregnant one at that.I know that her pregnancy came as a shock and dissapointment ,but this is no way to handle this situation.This little girl needs the love and support of her family and counceling and parenting class and a lot of things you should be providing.You also should seek help with a counselor and obviously parenting classes may help,as well as anger management.Your family needs a lot of help so instead of trying to con us get help for your famoly to deal with the birth of your grandchild!

CaptainForest

Yes. I do.

I don't always look at who the poster is, I rather just answer the question.

And in this case, I didn't realize that the same person posted those 2 posts.