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I just found out I'm pregnant by my ex. He was physically and emotionally abusive. He told me the last time we spoke that if I ever became pregnant by him he would do "anything necessary to get rid of it". I decided not to tell him but I just thought of a very big problem, I go back to school in a week and he's going to be there, so how can I keep him from finding out or if he does should i lie and say it's not his or what should I do?? I'm scared and worried and upset and I just need to know what I should do. Someone please help me. I just want to get through my last year of high school alive and move on with my life. I just want my baby to be safe and as long as my ex is around that's not a possibility. What should I do???? I'll take any advise other than have an abortion/adoption. I'm keeping my baby.
Most of it was but I never thought about seeing him around my school and I don't know what's going to happen when he sees me at school obviously pregnant. I thought he would be attending a different school but now he isn't so I will see him there sometime and I'm just afraid of what he'll say or do when he sees me so I was asking if I should lie and say it's someone else's baby.
First. contact the police and file a complaint : terrorist threat, harassment of minor yet unborn, and just plain harassment...then move yourself from his view...do you love living on the wild side of sh**...You are important and so is your child...take the time to move to another state or another school...he may want to know about the child later in the child's life...give him time to mature and get mental support...but first get your parents involved...they have a baby in distress...oh by the way are you in college or high school? it is important...an order of protection for two years is important to get...go to your parents...if you have to move to a women shelter then do so for now...this man needs to be off the streets...do not take his hate message for granted...by thinking that it is a child game...you carry a life...let this message not be a game on your part...
I think that if he is really a threat, then do what needs to be done. Talk to your parents, the police, anyone who can listen and help. It doesn't seem like you have any other options. I don't think lying is the right thing to do. It would be better if he had time to mature and grow, but that is not your reality. Get other people involved!
This is my last year of high school, I'm going to college as soon as it's over and I may be able to do early graduation at my school. My parents and I have been talking to our lawyer about a restraining order but that would require him knowing where I live and places that I go a lot so he knows where he can not go and I would have to change schools since there's a possibility they won't make him leave our school and class starts in a week. We moved to a new home a week ago and he has no idea where but if I get a restraining order he will know and he'll find out about the baby. Should I just not go to school the first few weeks until I can get a waiver to a new school and forget the restraining order?
But that might require me to let him see the baby and what do I do when he does try to hurt one of us, throw the paper at him? I don't want him to even know about the baby but I can't find any way around it other than just not going to school until I can get a waiver.
Hi I'm 17 and I dated this guy for 2 years and now I think I'm pregnant by him. We haven't spoken in 3 months and I have a restraining order against him because he used to beat me and the last time we spoke he said if I was pregnant than he would hurt the baby and now I'm afraid to tell him and I wanted to know what some other people my age thought about it. He made it clear before I thought I was pregnant that if I ever was he wanted nothing to do with either one of us. Should I tell him or just go it alone??? I do have a new boyfriend who has an 11 month old and supports me and loves me either way. What do you guys think I should do?
Huh? That's some magic trick to have and not have a restraining order all at the same time AND be pregnant by someone you haven't spoken to in three months. Its not nice to play us like that Luv.
I just found out I'm pregnant by my ex. He was physically and emotionally abusive. He told me the last time we spoke that if I ever became pregnant by him he would do "anything necessary to get rid of it". I decided not to tell him but I just thought of a very big problem, I go back to school in a week and he's going to be there, so how can I keep him from finding out or if he does should i lie and say it's not his or what should I do?? I'm scared and worried and upset and I just need to know what I should do. Someone please help me. I just want to get through my last year of high school alive and move on with my life. I just want my baby to be safe and as long as my ex is around that's not a possibility. What should I do???? I'll take any advise other than have an abortion/adoption. I'm keeping my baby.
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