Hi I am new here. This looks like a great place to come to commiserate or to learn from other parents. Today I wanted to ask what is a reasonable hour that a 20 year old should be home. She is on summer break now. She thinks coming in at 2 or 3 is acceptable since most of her friends work at restaurants and don't get out of work until 10:00 or 11:00 nightly. They go to each others houses. Last night she said that some boys kept walking by where she was sitting, throwing white dust on her. It was kind of grainy. She said she had trouble swallowing after that. She is out again tonight at someone's house and said not to expect her home until 2:00. Should I make some boundaries or is it too late? Thank you so much for any thoughts you have. vickimarie