Hi I am new here. This looks like a great place to come to commiserate or to learn from other parents. Today I wanted to ask what is a reasonable hour that a 20 year old should be home. She is on summer break now. She thinks coming in at 2 or 3 is acceptable since most of her friends work at restaurants and don't get out of work til 10:00 or 11:00 nightly. They go to each others houses. Last night she said that some boys kept walking by where she was sitting, throwing white dust on her. It was kind of grainy. She said she had trouble swallowing after that. She is out again tonight at someones house and said not to expect her home til 2:00. Should I make some boundaries or is it too late? Thank you so much for any thoughts you have. vickimarie

basketballlover

it is your house, however she is an adult and it is time she starts making her own decisions. she is young and wants to have fun. as long as she isnt getting into harmful situations i think she should be allowed to make her own choices as long as its what is best for her safety and well-being.