I have a 17 year old step daughter who is extremely disrespectful and hateful. I have been around her for about 9 years now as well as her older half sister( my husbands other daughter) and I get along with the older one just great. The younger one was raised very differently and she is very angry, hateful and disrespectful to her Father and especially me. I know from the beginning that her mom talked a lot of trash about us but now she is 17 and we have had custody of her for about 3 years now. My husband does not discipline her at all and I am not aloud to. I am not even aloud to say anything to her even though she lives under my roof. When its just her and I home and her Dad is out of the house she is terrible towards me to the point that sometimes I have to leave the house too! She will not help me around the house what so ever, she will not do her own laundry or get a job. She will not lift a finger to do anything and my husband does nothing about it! I have not done her laundry for 3 weeks and I do not intend to do it! She and I arent on speaking terms right now because when ever I say something to her she blow up at me. This is starting to put a huge strain on my marriage and I dont know what to do besides ask my husband for a divorce because of her. My husband has some health issues and I feel bad about them but I do not know how to deal with this any longer. The problems other than the 17 year old daughter that my husband and I have are a totally different story and topic from this but this, in my opinion, is our biggest problem. Does anyone have any advise for me? I feel like I am stuck in the middle of a rock and hard place with her and the husband and dont know what to do! PLEASE HELP!!!
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