| how to counsel a teenager who is persistently dragged towards negativity by his mom? hai,
my uncle & aunt have a son & a daughter. my aunt always feel insecure about herself & so always finds faults with husband & ourselves. from childhood she is injecting all this negativity towards family members (not leaving her husband also) into the child who has now completed +2. the boy says he hates his father. he actually never uses his brain & so is always influenced by his mother & friends. they r living in a nuclear family of 4 members even then there is no bonding among themselves. they just don't know to give but always want from others. aunt is very very selfish & greedy. she doesn't have good relations even with her own sister. aunt is making her own son a puppet for her security in future.
my simple question is, how can we make the real picture of her mom be visible to son? |