If your psychics tell you your spiritual guide is trying to contact you, have they given you any advice on how to help him/her to appear and communicate with you? Any psychic worth it would at least have given you sound advice on how this is achieved. Go back to them and ask for concrete guidance so that you'll not be so freaked out about this episode in your life.
To be on the safe side, I'd also talk to a doctor about this, and also people who know you for a long time to confirm that you have certain abilities. This way you can prove that you are not going nuts.
Until this is resolved, you might want to try spending the nights with your parents or friends for a while.
Wish you lots of luck with this and please keep us posted.
