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melaniejyl · Mar 5, 2009, 07:24 PM

I woke up from a bad dream, when I looked to my side I saw a big, tall, black figure, he was wearing a long, hooded cape, he did not have a face and his arms and legs were not visible, I was very frightened, I cried and could not breathe. He was evil, he oddly put me in mind of the grim reaper.
My partner and I have just set a date for our wedding and I am convinced this is a bad sign or our wedding is cursed.
I have been told that I have a gift and that I should learn how to use it to help others, I often see, hear, smell or feel strange things that can not be explained.
What does this sighting mean?
Neither my partner nor myself have lost anyone recently either.

mudweiser · Mar 6, 2009, 07:32 PM

First off you need to get the whole bad omen thing off your mind. The only reason a marriage is not meant to be is because of the relationship. If your in a healthy one then you have nothing to worry about.

Now about the figure. I myself have experienced paranormal activity, I hate it and it really scares me. It could be one of two things:

1) You were simply still dreaming

2) You really saw an entity

Now the only thing you can do about is 'cleanse' your house. Various religions [whichever one you follow] have ways to do this.

My suggestion to you is to not pursue and try to find out what it is- often you end up digging yourself in a bigger hole [trust me].

The fact that you have this 'gift' is up to you to use it. I don't use mine, I often think to myself it's bullhonkey and it's just my imagination.

Hope I helped,

MRS.S

artlady · Mar 6, 2009, 08:00 PM

Say a prayer.Ask The Lord to keep you in his loving embrace and protection.

realreaper info · Aug 27, 2009, 01:16 PM

Originally Posted by melaniejyl

I woke up from a bad dream, when I looked to my side I saw a big, tall, black figure, he was wearing a long, hooded cape, he did not have a face and his arms and legs were not visible, I was very frightened, I cried and could not breathe. He was evil, he oddly put me in mind of the grim reaper.
My partner and I have just set a date for our wedding and I am convinced this is a bad sign or our wedding is cursed.
I have been told that I have a gift and that i should learn how to use it to help others, I often see, hear, smell or feel strange things that can not be explained.
What does this sighting mean?
Neither my partner nor myself have lost anyone recently either.

You made a deal with him in a dream more than likely when you were a kid and don't remember and you were at a check point and he showed himself to see if the deal was still on, postpone the wedding and if he comes to you in a dream again tell him no, otherwise it will be grimm.

realreaper info · Aug 27, 2009, 01:24 PM

You made a deal with him in a dream when you were a kid and don't remember and you were at a checkpoint and he showed himself to see if the deal was still on, postpone the wedding and if he comes to you in a dream again tell him no, otherwise it will be grimm

N0help4u · Aug 27, 2009, 03:25 PM

Originally Posted by realreaper info

you made a deal with him in a dream when you were a kid and don't remember and you were at a checkpoint and he showed himself to see if the deal was still on, postpone the wedding and if he comes to you in a dream again tell him no, otherwise it will be grimm

All that out of the little the OP said?
I wouldn't be jumping to conclusions so easily.

Gemini54 · Aug 27, 2009, 11:54 PM

Originally Posted by realreaper info

you made a deal with him in a dream when you were a kid and don't remember and you were at a checkpoint and he showed himself to see if the deal was still on, postpone the wedding and if he comes to you in a dream again tell him no, otherwise it will be grimm

What an utterly absurd thing to say.

Gemini54 · Aug 28, 2009, 12:02 AM

I would suggest that you were having a waking dream.

In the Tarot the death card is frequently depicted with a grim reaper type figure. Most often this card means endings and rebirth.

You are getting married. This represents the end of your single status and heralds the beginning of a new era in your life a married person.

This figure simply represents the symbolic death of your old self and the start of a new cycle in your life. It may be asking you to be conscious of this change.