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I moved into my house 3 years ago, but I noticed something eerie at my 10th slumber party. The night before, I had a nightmare in which a grim, looming figure appeared out of our basement wall, and came toward us partiers. I thought it was just nerves, so i tried to shake it off. But then on the night of the party, we all suddenly woke up and the TV flashed on and off. Then my best friend saw and discribed the figure from my dream. I hadn't told her about it. Ever since then, all the rooms in the house except the room that an old lady died in have an eerie, looming, even threatining presence in them. I have nightmares about the rooms and voices are heard at night. I never see anything but i strongly sense them to the point that i can visualize it in my head (in my room.) it looks like a young girl, with a white dress, but a look of hate so strong on her face that i cannot describe it. It paralyzes me. My 19 year old brother feels the same. What should we do?
Honestly I would move. I totally believe in ghosts. Or at least spirits. I lived in an apartment a few years back. As soon as you were inside if felt like someone was following you, you had to constantly look back to make sure that you were alone. THere was always a sudden urge to go into the bedroom and lock yourself in there. At night both of my cats would face the hallway wall and make this horrible crying meow noise. EVERY night. I moved after living there for two months....
Is it a look of hate, or a look of fear? you may be just as frighteneing to her. This is still her house as far as she is concerned, and probably sees you as the intruder. Try to let her know that you won't hurt her, that you might even befriend her. People tend to think of ghosts from horror movies, and think its real life. Ghosts tend to be fearfull of humans. Perhaps they see us the way we see them. We are the ghosts.
Just dont be too quick to think of her as an evil spirit. she may have seen you in 'her room' and gotten mad. this would explain the hate in her eyes. she may not understand why there is somone living in her room, sleeping in her bed. Try to explain yourself, and tell her who you are. Most ghosts are not mean, just scared.
i believe strongly in spirits as well. i do not know if you are religious or not but my best advise is pray every night and maybe if you are catholic, talk to your parents about getting your home blessed or maybe you can all pray togehter as a family. at your age strange things use to happen to me and my friend at her house and mine. . . . . we were frightened a lot so i totally understand how you might be feeling at this point. our parents would say ignore it it is in your minds but we knew otherwise so we did pray and it helped a little sometimes.
a blessing is a great idea, however, a catholic priest may not be a good idea. if you are catholic, perhaps just your parents or maybe a friend. Religoes people in the catholic faith tend to piss spirits off more often than not. There is too much darkness in the faith. someone who believes in it, but does not go to extremes, would probably be your best bet.
I moved into my house 3 years ago, but I noticed something eerie at my 10th slumber party. The night before, I had a nightmare in which a grim, looming figure appeared out of our basement wall, and came toward us partiers. I thought it was just nerves, so i tried to shake it off. But then on the night of the party, we all suddenly woke up and the TV flashed on and off. Then my best friend saw and discribed the figure from my dream. I hadn't told her about it. Ever since then, all the rooms in the house except the room that an old lady died in have an eerie, looming, even threatining presence in them. I have nightmares about the rooms and voices are heard at night. I never see anything but i strongly sense them to the point that i can visualize it in my head (in my room.) it looks like a young girl, with a white dress, but a look of hate so strong on her face that i cannot describe it. It paralyzes me. My 19 year old brother feels the same. What should we do?
You guys realize this really might be a 12 years old girl, right?!!
To abigail,
Trust me on this... There are no such things as ghosts. Never has been and never will be. However sometimes, very unlikely things can happen. Things that are HUGE coincidences! This is a matter of math and probability. Sooner or later, something extremely unlikely can happen such as a friend having the same dream, or imagining the same thing that you did, etc. (btw- are you SURE you didn't tell her about your dream, or that she couldn't have overheard you talking about it to someone else? Maybe your brother?).
But I want you to know that there is always a logical explanation for things! Even if we can't find what that logical explanation is. What you can be 100% sure of is that there are NO ghosts in your house! So there is nothing paranormal for you to be frightened of. Just be a kid, have fun, and do good in school and you'll be fine. Good luck!