How can I stop hating women?

JoeCanada76 · Apr 13, 2009, 10:30 PM

Anybody that has such an hatred for others, obviously have that hatred within themselves about themselves.

mari_ · Apr 13, 2009, 10:30 PM

I think in time you will view women differently in time... Maybe your going through a rough time or a low point with women... But in time maybe you will be gay and /or maybe you will find a woman that changes your view point. Just take time out for yourself and not try to look or judge a girl.

88sunflower · Apr 14, 2009, 07:41 AM

I agree. There is something in you that you don't like for you to be talking like this. If girls bother you that much then don't pay any attention to them. Your almost coming across to me as being obsessed with girls actions. If you don't like girls or how they act and talk, hang out with the guys. Who cares. I have three images in my head of you. As you grow older you will..............1) change your opinion because there will be special girl that won your heart 2) keep your same attitude and treat women terribly and with no respect and be married and divorced several times 3) your just gay and don't know how to accept it........

T-Bag · Apr 14, 2009, 09:10 AM

I'm young..still in high school

Homegirl 50 · Apr 14, 2009, 10:00 AM

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Originally Posted by T-Bag

I'm young..still in high school

Then now is a good time to get some help. Your dislike and opinions about females are extreme. Did some girl do or say something to you to hurt your feelings?
How old are you?

0rphan · Apr 14, 2009, 11:35 AM

I think your in a difficult time in your life right now....I think you said you were 14 years old... Puberty kicked in etc..etc...

Your question asks: how can I stop hating women.

Your last question was: how can I stop being attracted to women .

I think you really need to talk to someone about how confused you are.

Maybe a mate or another member of your family who perhaps you are particularly close too...

88sunflower · Apr 14, 2009, 12:07 PM

I was wondering that myself. Hating women in one post but to attracted to them in another post. You think maybe he did fall for a woman and she hurt him or was mean to him? Is this the case?

T-Bag · Apr 14, 2009, 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by 88sunflower

I was wondering that myself. Hating women in one post but to attracted to them in another post. You think maybe he did fall for a woman and she hurt him or was mean to him? Is this the case?

You're pretty smart 88sunflower...that is the case. It happened over a year and a half a go, first time it happened and I want to make sure that its the last time it happens. And I can't get the out of my head. I still have dreams of her (nothing preverted, just normal dreams). I'm not one of those people who take rejection or failure lightly, but I'm not a psycho or anything either! I promise

Its just that I hate letting a girl get the best of me...[There used to be a bunch of additional info where this sentence is right now but I pressed delete because I felt all gay and girly, writing down my emotions, ugh] Can someone help me? And not in any emotional way, just tell me what to do so I can stop hating women and not be attracted to them either. Thanks

I really appreciate you guys trying to help me out. Just don't judge me too harshly. And although I probably sound like it, I'm not crazy. I'm just a guy who's not used to getting screwed over, that got screwed over.

Homegirl 50 · Apr 14, 2009, 10:03 PM

No one is judging you, but you are at an age where you are going to be attracted to girls. That is nature. Nothing you can do about that. What you can do is learn that in life there is rejection and hurt but you can learn to get past it and move on, this is why I suggest you talk to someone who can help you understand what happened and then get past it. A year and a half ago you were what 12/13, at that age you can exaggerate things or they can seem more serious than what they really are.

Talk to someone who can help you filter through this so that you can grow and develop as you should.

88sunflower · Apr 15, 2009, 07:34 AM

I had a feeling that's what happened.
If I felt hatred towards men every time I was hurt I would not be in a good spot today. Its going to happen. Its a part of life. Your going to always have an attraction to women. Some maybe respond to it, others may not. That's a part of life really. Your not getting over it because your obsessed with it. She was maybe your first love, or severe crush and she hurt you. There are still boys today from school I think about. But now, its not because they hurt me, I just think what there lives are like now. You need to realize its part of history, a new road has opened up. Take that journey and don't look back. It will never be what it was. Your hurting yourself more dwelling on it then just forgetting and moving on. Boys and men have emotions. Whatever you were going to write that was gay or girly is totally fine. I would never judge. Men shed tears. Men can have a broken heart. I think you just got a taste of what love and life is about. I think you must realize this isn't the last time you will be hurt. You have many years to find that special love. Until then focus on you. Learn from the past and move forward.

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