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joypulv · Mar 30, 2012, 10:56 AM

Wanting to leave because you've had enough or feel old and worn out, but not because you are a loser.
Do you want to go live in isolation (impossible unless you are a true survivalist in a very remote part of the world) or do you want to stop living?

joypulv · Mar 30, 2012, 04:10 PM

loplop, we can see that you asked this over a month ago, so you are still around.
My theory is to live til you die, even if you choose to die.
You sound like you are asking for some affirmation that you are NOT a loser, truthfully.
Here's what a good friend (who happens to be a psychologist) said to me when my husband dumped me: 'You're so depressed you aren't even putting yourself down.'
Putting yourself down is a need to hear the opposite!
Now loplop, you are putting yourself down, so do you want us to protest that you aren't a loser?
You have to do that yourself. We don't know you or anything about you.
All I can say is: live til you die.

loplop · Apr 12, 2012, 10:51 AM

Alone. Thats what we are all, take everything and everyone away and no one can help you, but yourself, and even if external help is available odds are it won't help you. And if you really think about it are you really even able to help yourself. If you could help yourself would you not have already done so?

loplop · Aug 20, 2012, 12:51 PM

Happy Birthday to me (Aug 27)? How can someone who is truly unwanted by everyone, ignored and is seemingly doomed not only to be a social outcast, but also to be tormented by the ironic and cruel circumstances the world has inflicted upon them have a "Happy Birthday". I would hope any divine entity in exisitence would show sympathy and give me a break, some luck or some good fortune on my birthday as I hope maybe naively that everyone's birthday is happy even if mine is not.

joypulv · Aug 20, 2012, 02:14 PM

Hi again. Seems I'm the only one who talks to you?
Today is not your birthday, nor mine. It is a friend of mine. Her cat has been gone for almost a week, probably eaten by a coyote or bear. A cruel birthday present.
You still haven't said why you are unwanted and ignored by everyone, and why you are doomed.
Yes, you are naive.

loplop · Aug 28, 2012, 10:50 AM

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Originally Posted by joypulv

Hi again. Seems I'm the only one who talks to you?
Today is not your birthday, nor mine. It is a friend of mine. Her cat has been gone for almost a week, probably eaten by a coyote or bear. A cruel birthday present.
You still haven't said why you are unwanted and ignored by everyone, and why you are doomed.
Yes, you are naive.

I am unwanted, because whenever I try to make friends they either find someone better or they simply do not like me that much.
I am ignored, because the only comfortable way I can communicate
is through written word since I have a god awful voice that practically makes
me no better that a mute. I am doomed, because I continue to be plagued by human emotions despite my best efforts to live apathetically.
Overall, life is torture for me. My sympathies to your friend, I hope they had a
Happy Birthday anyway.

joypulv · Aug 28, 2012, 11:25 AM

I do know a lot of what you are going through. A cycle of apathy, total end-it doom, and hope, many times a day.

loplop · Aug 31, 2012, 11:50 AM

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Originally Posted by joypulv

I do know a lot of what you are going through. A cycle of apathy, total end-it doom, and hope, many times a day.

Do not forget the cruel and ironic circumstances the world loves to dish out,
example seeing someone you like you and intuitively knowing they are beyond your reach and will never like you yet still liking them anyways despite everything you try to do. Only to find out they wind up liking someone not so different from yourself and knowing deep down inside no one will be like them. Or seeing someone you liked first become the object of everyone's affection and feeling so
left out.

loplop · Oct 25, 2012, 08:28 AM

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Originally Posted by joypulv

Wanting to leave because you've had enough or feel old and worn out, but not because you are a loser.
Do you want to go live in isolation (impossible unless you are a true survivalist in a very remote part of the world) or do you want to stop living?

I can wait to "live in the world" until the world is without pain, suffering and misery for all and only the meek remain. Does anyone think this is possible?

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