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Old Jul 26, 2007, 12:31 PM
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Will I Go To Hell?

I am in an abusive marriage with a Christian..... I plan to leave and divorce soon... will I be doomed for a divorce?

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Old Jul 26, 2007, 12:32 PM   #2  
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God would not want you to stay in a marriage where a man abuses you. In my opinion God is a loving and forgiving God who wants nothing but happiness for his followers.

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I am almost positive that abuse is one of the very few acceptions to getting a divorce. So no, you're not going to be doomed. God wouldn't want you suffering
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god is all forgiving, it is not a sin to leave abuse.

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In fact your church may even be able to help you get out of this abusive situation. I know my church often did help financially as well as emotionally.
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No you will not be doomed to hell for leaving a destructive, possibly deadly relationship. Your husband, I must say is NOT a Christian if he does these things to you and HE may be doomed to hell.

But not you dear.
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Good lord...if your marriage is abusive, you need to get OUT of it.

Any god that would doom you to hell for getting yourself away from something evil is a horrible god not worthy of following, wouldn't you think?

No *good* god would condemn you for leaving an abusive marriage

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Thank you all- I've stayed for 3 1/2 years because of distorted religious views and opinions and brainwashing from my husband. Was just interested in what others believed.
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Hun, this man is NOT a Christian if he lays one hand on you and don't you believe a word he says.
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He can abuse you mentally as well as physically. One can be as bad as the other. Never let ayone use the bible to make you put up with abuse. Please leave and start a new peaceful life. Good luck
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